well emotions from guys scare her because she has beeen hurt so many times and i really like this girl and i wana be wit her but i dont know how to show her without scaring her she likes hanging out and just kicking it so if any of u women or girls could help me please do thanx
2007-03-11 16:47:03 · 6 answers · asked by Bubba 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You show someone that you care about them by loving them in the way they need to be loved. If she like to hold your hand and be affectionate, then affection is what matters. I highly recommend reading The Five Love Languages it changed my outlook on how to love my wife!!!
2007-03-11 16:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by InspireTomorrow.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing is good another thing very important when you see a pretty girl coming your way don't look her way because your girlfriend has already spotted her a mile away and I'm not kidding.We women have x-ray vision when it comes to our husbands or boyfriends and the opposite sex. And if she ask who do you think is prettier well you no what to say with that one. You just keep reassuring her that you will never hurt her she will get the message. I was like her and my husband was good about reassuring me when I needed it and I did come to trust him. It took about 17 years but it did happen and I know I had me a good man who promise he would never hurt me. One year later he moved out to be with a co-worker he had been seeing for over 3 years he did move back home but I am more f u c k e d up then before so place if you don't have staying power then don't mess her up anymore then she already is. Even though I love my husband I hate him and will never till the day I die forgive him for what he said and did to me.He knows how I feel about him and the fact that I will never forgive him and he said he understands and is willing to take his punishment like a man because he caused it himself.Now that's love in my book.
2007-03-12 00:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only thing you can do is try and decide if you want to be in this thing for the long haul because it may take her a really long time to cave in.
All you can do is show her you care and keep being her friend.
You should really respect the fact that she has her guard up and is being sensible by not rushing back into another relationship and give her time and space to heal. She'll come around eventually.
2007-03-12 01:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, we have the same screen names, lol, niiiice, 2nd, just stay her friend for a while, let her learn to trust you, and once she knows she can trust you, maybe ask her to the movies and work really slowly, you dont want to seem like you like the thought of her, you want her to see that you like her as a person. so be her friend until u no she can trust you and then move in slowly a bit at a time
2007-03-11 23:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by aggiegrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is take your time with her. Don't rush anything. But let her know you have feelings for her. And you are willing to wait for her to be ready to accept those feelings from you.
2007-03-11 23:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by bubbly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her a band-aid.
Serious answer: just tell her that you're not like other guys and you want to open up to her emotionally and tell her that you can stop any time she wants.
2007-03-11 23:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by MrMarblesTI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋