Girls: What should a guy know before having sex with a girl who is a virgin?

Question

I'v heard that a girl hurts her first time. What does it feel like? Can it be compaired to something? Anything I can do?

Answer 1

Go in slowly and stay inside for a minute to let the pain go away. After that, you can get busy.

Answer 2

First of all, why should you be having sex and taking the virginity of a young girl? That is not a very moral and ethical thing to do. If you want to sow your wild oats as the expression goes, there are plenty of girls out there with more experience and are not virgins. If this is your girlfriend and she is a virgin, I would advise you to keep your p..............s in your pants where it belongs. You should be ashamed of yourself. If she has indicated to you that she wants you to take her virginity, you should be strong enough to refuse because she is a virgin. First of all she could become pregnant, and if she is underage, you could be charged with statutory rape and get the rath of her parents against you and you can be arrested. Also, I am sure you are very young, so think before you act, leave this girl alone and let her keep her virginity till she is more mature and understands the ramifications of having sex. Do you get the picture now? I hope so.

Answer 3

You should know that she will be nervous. You have to excite her and use lube too. Go slow. USE A LUBRICATED CONDOM! When you start to feel a barrier of some type, stop and make sure she's ready. Then, without ramming, for gods sake, push thru with a short thrust. stop there (breathe deep) and let her get used to you. then start slowly. don't be a jerk after, hold her. if she cries, its NORMAL and FINE and hopefully has nothing to do with.you! make her feel better by holding her, cause it can be scary to experience something...inside of you at first. Think of the pain as popping a painful pimple-oh it hurts at first but goes away really quickly. Ha ha...i hope i didn't scare you...:)

Answer 4

What you should know is this: Go in SLOWLY to stretch the skin rather than just shoving it in. Going in too quickly causes more rippage, pain, blood, etc! It's like stretching a piercing... If you want plugs in your ears you don't just shove something in there, you stretch it nice and slow and it opens up with a bit of pain but minimal damage.

Answer 5

try sticking a banana up your butt or something larger.
she has never had anything up there before, and it needs to be stretched out. its not like an elastic band or anything, it doesn't stretch that easy, so she will probably want to stop a bunch of times because it is really going to hurt for the first little bit, but after she gets used to it, and gets loosened up you guys will have a lot of fun. i know everyone says this but they say it for a reason...............be safe, and use protection.

Answer 6

Be gentle. Let her control how fast you go and how deep you penetrate. It can hurt the first time, and sometimes it burns. Just be gentle and listen to her. That way she will feel safe and comfortable, and next time will be easier.

Answer 7

Earlier it used to be trial and error method which was enjoyable. All this questions were not there earlier. But had a dozen kids

Answer 8

listen to her!!! if she makes a * ouch ** face, then stop, talk to her, ask her if she is ok, make her feel important, cause she is!!!!

just ask her if she is ok throught the whole time!

Be gentle, and if she says she wants to stop, STOP!

candles, lotion, give her a massage first, then get some orgazmix-they sell it at local adult stores, its lubricates and helps both of you, trust me.

Hope this helps you

Answer 9

It wasn't that bad for me. Just be gentle, slow.

Answer 10

That her really cold virgin pussy could freeze off the guy's dick.