i was just curious...im not a virgin or anything but if your starting to see a new guy how long should u wait until putting out? How many dates or how many weeks do you think you should make a guy wait?
2007-03-11 16:07:53 · 10 answers · asked by superstar77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im twenty years old
2007-03-11 16:25:32 · update #1
You should wait until you are both comfortable with the idea and eachother...Why be in a rush for the sex, spend time to get to know eachother first!!
2007-03-11 16:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by JesJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are basing when you should have sex around the whole concept of making a guy wait then you should not even be having sex at all, however the correct answer would be when you are in love and if you are going to ask me how do you know when you are in love, again, you are not ready for sex.
2007-03-11 16:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i'm a 21 year previous lady and in my opinion its completely as much as you its your physique yet 7 months is a hell of a protracted time no longer if u have been a virgin b4 hand. With me its distinctive i'm extra of a sexual kinda gal I make 1st strikes probable like after the three or 4 date if the sensation is the possibly b 4 yet in no way 7 months I propose possibly if we've been purely acquaintances and it purely happend yet my boyfriend no longer that long and while u asked if men seem at women in a distinctive way i think of its all relating to the way you carry your self and the area. And a word of advice compelled intercourse is often the extra serious intercourse. while u get gentle with it then you certainly'll see how lots of a brilliant element it somewhat is...
2016-10-18 03:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm well, I see you're not a virgin. I was gonna tell you to do like me and wait after you're married, but I guess not. I guess months, maaaany months. How about a year? So you can be sure that he's it and that you give it to someone who's worth it.
2007-03-11 16:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You're obviously a veteran of "putting out" when you're more concerned about that than having a meaningful relationship. Pretty sad in my opinion.
Just be prepared to "put out" on a regular basis, since once the word gets out that you are the kind of girl that "puts out', there will be no shortage of guys waiting for you to "put out" for them. And, once you do "put out" most guys won't respect you the same afterwards. Decent guys respect ladies who don't look at sex as "putting out". Guys who want to USE you for sex do. This comes from a guy who in the past has been with girls that "put out".
There's a lot more to a meaningful relationship than "putting out".
Just remember this the next time you decide to "put out". What do you value more, your self-respect or "putting out"?
I hope you eventually learn the difference between making love with someone you love and respect and "putting out". Good luck.
2007-03-11 16:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Until you're ready to have sex with him. There is no set time for waiting. If he loves you, or at least respects you, he won't have a problem waiting.
2007-03-11 16:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most mature adults usually wait until at least the 3rd date or 1 month. Please make clear if you want a boyfriend or FWB beforehand.
2007-03-11 18:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by zotzotzot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're both of legal age, make him wait at least, oh, some thing like, humm, an hour or two.
2007-03-11 16:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well how old are you? I would say a week at best. If your easy, 2 -4 hours!
2007-03-11 16:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Matt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
until u marry him.
2007-03-11 16:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋