i like some one and i want to tell him but i am scared of what he might say. also he has a girlfreind and i dont want to start mess between me and her. but then what if i dont tell him and it turns out he liked me to then (what do i do)?
2007-03-11 16:05:04 · 9 answers · asked by RERE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that if he finds himself free of relationships with other girls that you would consider dating him. Than leave the rest up to him. That way your telling him your interested in him and that you will not consider coming between yourself and his present girlfriend or him and his girlfriend.. He will understand that he will have to make the move and that you do not want to enter into a altercation with his present girlfriend.
2007-03-11 16:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough One. I Understand About Not Wanting To Start Anything Between Him And Her. But If He's Not Happy With Her (Which I Don't Know If He Is Or Isn't) Then I Would Give It A Shot. If You Don't Feel Comfortable With That You May Just Have To Wait Until You See An Opportunity.
2007-03-11 23:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to know what to do since he has a girlfriend. Maybe wait for him to make the move or wait till they break up. Does it seem like he likes you? Just don't do something you think you will regret! Hope everything works out! â¥â¥â¥
2007-03-11 23:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't worry about if she gets angry at you...thats a mistake I made during my middle school days: I kept my feelings secret, and i lived lonely and often thought of the words "what if?" and you don't want that to happen, what you want to do is take the risk, maybe, just maybe, you should get to know him better, and become a close friend, that way you can get to know him, and see if he's boyfriend material...but here's a warning, if you're constantly afraid, you'll never get anywhere, and that's the truth...
2007-03-11 23:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by runeboi678 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur positively sure he'll like you then tell him. if not then i wouldnt try to mess up a relationship unless theyre not in a good relationship. but hey life is all about chances. take one and see what happens. good luck and god bless you :)
2007-03-11 23:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by dangg x jessss (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a girlfriend and it's not you he either doesn't like you, likes her more, or maybe he likes you but is just with her. whatever it is, you need to stay out of it at least until they're broken up
2007-03-11 23:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by bananajcd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should lay low until he does not have a girl friend.
2007-03-11 23:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jenblossom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend and if hes ever single then you can tell him how you feel. good luck
2007-03-11 23:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by jessica s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till they break up (or speed things along) but don't keep secrets or lie to him. it hurts many. including myself *tear* *sob*
2007-03-11 23:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Rayyhol♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋