he is a wonderful,caring,kind ,hard working,understanding.i am a hillbilly baptist with past drama's so i have a real trust issue.he is muslim and a different culture.i want to be with him and he seem sincere.how do i know what's what?is it posible 4 /2 such different people have a good life togather?i just don't want to make the wrong decision..tks 4 ur time.
2007-03-11 16:04:23 · 5 answers · asked by t w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I gotta agree with the general negativity of your other answers. For one thing any two people of very different cultures and religions are going to start having both big communication issues, and big reasons they need good communication. The other thing is that Muslim guys just have a bad reputation for the way they treat women. They are also famous for being secular when they marry their western wives and then getting all this religious guilt later and putting these wives through hell. Just hope if you have kids that he dosn't take them back home with him. There are lots of books written on this subject, you should check them out.
Good luck.
2007-03-13 03:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like being someones slave and wearing a burqa then go for it.
I dont know where you met this guy but a lot of muslim men are using American women to get a pass into the USA.
Muslim men are only allowed to marry muslim women so what is he doing with you?
You better think about what youre getting yourself into.
2007-03-11 16:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible...yes. Is it probable, No! Learn more about him, his beliefs, his past, his feelings about what the future holds for you both. Do not act on emotion. When it fades away, reality will set in, and it might be a very cold, harsh reality.
Take your time! If he wants to move quicker than you are comfortable, end it!
You are already questioning yourself, so don't repeat mistakes you've made previously, learn from them.
Good luck!
2007-03-11 17:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The odds of you and him going long term are slim. Besides the cultural differences, you have the religious differences, which are HUGE. You should really think things through and imagine how the future would be - you wouldn't have culture or God in common and how would you raise your kids?
2007-03-11 17:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50% of marriages end in divorce, interfaith marriage 75% end in divorce, life/marriage is hard enough when you agree, it is 10 times harder when you don't agree, you mentioned you are Baptist, what does your pastor say, your mom and dad ?
2007-03-11 16:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋