I had a fight with my girlfriend and we broke up. A week later I sent her an email apologizing for insulting her and asking her if we could still be friends. I told her I would not bother her after this email if she says no, but I just want to know.
She never responded and I know she got the email. Is she thinking about it or should I take her not responding as a no?
2007-03-11 15:56:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry,
but if she hasn't responded then it's a no...
When a girl is pissed at a guy & she's already talked it over with all of her friends & family that you two are done. Then that's it, everbody knows that if she goes back with you she's a fool...So, she's going to just try & forget about you...Chances are she probebly does have feelings for you but she knows deep with in her that it just can't work...
You have two options...You can either except her disition or try your best to get her back....
but, us woman are pretty hard headed & stick to our belief...So I would really just leave it how it is...Their plenty of others, no need to kill your self over just one.
Every thing happens for a reason...
2007-03-11 16:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send One Last Email. If She Doesn't Respond Move On, Some Girls Like To Be Chased And Make You Beg For Them. If You Feel She's Worth It Then You Can Try And Talk To Her, I'd Give Her Two Weeks Tops, Then Leave It Alone.
2007-03-11 15:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a lady but I will tell you that is a no. She is not responding to you because if she said yes, you will probably pester her, and if the answer is no, she does not want to hear you cry about how she is mean and heartless. The bottom line here is that it is over, and you should just move on. It happens to every guy on earth, and real men say screw it, and get with another lady!
You probably did not do anything that deserved being dumped, the mistake you made was being a wimp like you are now. She will tell you that you did something wrong, but in reality she just did not like you anymore. You see ladies being with guys that are huge jerks, but they are not being dumped. Why? Because ladies want men, not wimps. So dont bother with her, and if she does call back say you have a date and dont have time to talk.
2007-03-11 16:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by michael p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW it is hard, but you have GOT to move on!!! You do not want to be grovelling at her feet! If you play hard to get, the roles may be reversed. I broke up with a guy recently online (it was an online relationship), and he hasn't replied. I know he got it, but I wish he would reply. I want to send another either telling him off or apologizing. This is only natural, but I am not going to contact him again for fear of appearing to be a fool. Sometimes you have just got to have a little self respect. Think about something else, do something to get your mind off of it, or you will go crazy thinking about it.
2007-03-11 16:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by nelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably still very emotitonal about the whole issue. Let it go a few weeks, and then send it again. Not the same one, but write how you feel at that time, and tell her honestly. Then if she doesnt respond the anser probably no. Theres a small chance she's just thinking about it though.
2007-03-11 15:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by sasukechaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you told her you wouldnt bother her after sending the email and she hasnt responded,thats pretty much your answer right there.can you honestly say that after not talking for a whole week,if she responded you wouldnt wanna persue that conversation?give yourself some closure and move on.its too early to be freinds especially if your insult was REALLY bad.good luck
2007-03-11 16:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by mrs.dynomite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl.
I, for one, would respond. It may not be a nice response but I would respond.
Chances are she is probably needing time, but you have placed the ball in her court, all you can do is wait, anymore emails would be a little pushy
2007-03-11 15:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jersey Girl 86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that whatever happened between you two really hurt her feelings. I believe that she really does want to be friends with you but with just being friends means that you two won't be together anymore and i don't think that she is ready to accept that yet. For the time being just give her some space and hope that things work out between you two. Best Wishes.
*~Brooke Zeo
2007-03-11 16:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Brooke Zeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it as a no. Sorry! :(
but you will find that perfect girl some day soon when you least expect it! it's called a break-up because it's Broken and has lost it's value. move on hun.. and i know it's hard but things can only get better!!! best wishes to you!
2007-03-11 16:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the fight about?
Maybe it means no...maybe she just knows that the whole situation is making you into a complete basketcase and is enjoying the power...maybe she's still thinking.
2007-03-11 16:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋