so theres this new girl at my church. shes really cute and is the daughter of a visiting pastor, but she goes to a boarding school thats in the next town from my hood, so shes like a 10 minute drive away. i only get to see her on sundays when i actually go to church, so i cant communicate with her as much as id like to. what to do, what to do??
2007-03-11 15:49:27 · 13 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First go up to her and say Hi and start a conversation with her.
Then keep doing that for a few weeks until it becomes more comfortable between you two. Pick up on her interests and tell her about yourself. Get to the point where you are laughing and joking around. If you still like her once you get to know her more then ask her -casually-and naturally- out. See what happens.. that's all you can do.
2007-03-11 15:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Traveler001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by being a friend. Old rule: to get a friend be a friend. Then work from there. If there is a connection it will happen, if not, it was not meant to be. Be yourself and she will see the goodness in your heart. Also, listen. Always be a good listener and she will want to talk to you. Good luck!
2007-03-11 22:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe next sunday, when you see her, you should start a random conversation with her. dont be afraid to appoach her, because she could be interested as well. see what she likes, and if shes the right girl for you. than ask to hang out sometime. if everything works out smoothly good, if doesnt you can be friends.
hope this helps:)
2007-03-11 22:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get her number and email and talk to her that way. Be honest with her in everything, that's really appealling to a girl. Ask her about her life, future, hopes, dreams. Try really hard to just know her.
2007-03-11 22:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next sunday go to church a lil late and sit next to her or invite her to youth group or a christian concert or something. then get her attention. be funny. make her trust u. make a move.
2007-03-11 22:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk smoothe, never think, buy some nice clothes, wear some fruity cologne, SMILE :)
try and b funny, but cool. it always works
2007-03-11 22:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by dirka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her for her #. make sure ur the material tht her dad allows and go out on outings with her. just keep it simple.
2007-03-11 22:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get with her friends (not in the same way you get with her) it will be ten times easier to get with her
2007-03-11 22:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by Steve M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her phone number and call her, just be yourself dont try to be fake.
2007-03-11 22:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just compliment her a lot....try not to look obsesed
2007-03-11 22:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by luckylove713 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋