and it was so good and i miss him a lot and want to get back with him but i moved on and im not sure what he's been getting into or if he's into a relationship i aint seen him in like 9 months and all the feeling are starting to come back but in reality i feel it wont work again. what should i do? just be his homie with benefits? or try to work it out again?
2007-03-11 15:38:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him go he aint the only man in the world
2007-03-11 15:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by cacowboy_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well if you have moved on I dont see why you would think twice about getting back together again. Either you moved on or you didnt. (not trying to be rude) Of you feel it isnt going to work I suggest you just let it go and just keep on with your life like you were nefore you saw him. If the first few times didnt work chances are it is isnt gonna work. But if you really want to see if anything will happen just be careful keep in mind that it might or might not work out. Friends with benefits is a bad idea you would only get hurt.
2007-03-11 22:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by cHiKiBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ex for a reason. Keep it that way. Move on and be happy without the benefits. Who wins in that? I want a friend with benefits too but that's a problem just around the corner.
2007-03-11 22:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kyle L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, I would try to talk to him to see what he wants, never know. If he gives you the cold shoulder, then you know it wasnt meant to be, but if he says hey wanna go out sometime or however way he puts it... than its all game unless like you said, if he has a girlfriend, id def find that out. be his friend at first so he doesnt think your being too mushy or pushy, then drop the question gently. Dont want him thinking you wanna just hop in the saq with him. Or do ya?
2007-03-11 22:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by grumpyme2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it won't work out it's best to make a clean break.
Benefits make things messy.
2007-03-11 22:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that your ex is an ex for a reason.
2007-03-11 22:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by barbara m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. Thats what you should do. No more exes. Just find some1 new.
2007-03-11 22:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
what does he want
how does he want to go about things?
for me, friend with benifits has never, ever worked
but, i mean, i guess everybodies different
2007-03-11 22:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋