i like this guy... but he only wants one thing from me. And i REFUSE to give it to him!! and he is completely ruining me reputation... He told this guy i liked, that i was sooo easy!! it's p*ssing me off!! how the hell do i make him stop?? (i have never done anything with anyone, so.. idk why they believe this dumba**!!
what would pocess a girl to like me (sweet and innocent) to like a guy like him??
2007-03-11 15:27:46 · 14 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he talks about you like that, move on & find a guy that respects you and your decisions not to have sex. a real man won't make fun of you and talk about you like that. you can do better. if you DO stick around and let him treat you like that, that does kind of make you seem like you let guys walk all over you, even if you didn't let him sleep with you.
find a guy that cares! :)
2007-03-11 15:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by peaches87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know *what* would posess you to like him. But with regard to your first question, you can't make anyone do anything. Cut off all ties with him. Tell him you want nothing more to do with him because he's too pushy and, worse, a liar.
After that, you can't help whether or not anyone believes his lies. and if you spend a lot of energy defending yourself against his lies, it might look like you have something to hide, like you're defensive. Just go on living your life. Ignore him, and anyone who believes gossip about things they really don't know anything about. The smartest people, including guys, will get to know you on their own, and draw their own conclusions.
If anyone hassles you about what this guy said, just say that people who believe gossip are lame, and leave it at that.
2007-03-11 15:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He's doing it to get a reaction from you and he's winning.
Don't give him one he'll stop soon enough. 2. Tell your big brother so he can kick his *** 3. Tell the police see what they can do. 4. Tell the teachers or someone else in authority, they will stop him. 5. Sneak up on him one day and hit him in the back of the head with a metal pole.
2007-03-11 15:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about him if that is all he wants from you then let him go cause you are better than that and if he really loves you he will wait till you are ready and not rush you into doing anything, just ignore the fact that he is saying your easy, if you are easy wouldnt he of had some by now? exactly he is just dumb and mad and thinking that maybe you will say ok we can do it if you stop saying that, you need to just break up with him and find someone who will love you and respect you for who you are and not rush you into anything
2007-03-11 15:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Brandon D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ditch the stupid a** and the dummy you like for being stupid enough to believe the stupid a**. Sounds to me like they both need a bunch of extra chlorine in their gene pools.
2007-03-11 15:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's doing you a favor! Now get back to the schoolbooks. It's much more important. You got the rest of your life to chase men.
2007-03-11 15:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him! Don't care what he's telling everybody else, they probably know that he's a liar. Sometimes our heads can't tell our emotions what to do, but you CAN ignore your emotions until you get a hold on them.
2007-03-11 15:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the stupid guy your having a baby lol he will back off quick. lol
2007-03-12 10:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow them both off and find someone that will respect your choices about sex and self respect.They both sound immature and will just give you headaches.
2007-03-11 15:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let people say wthat they whant at list you now you are not easey. Ignore him.
2007-03-11 15:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by HUGO B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋