I have a nice face, big chest (D), I am blonde, I am almost 5'5"...but I am a bit over weight. (145lbs) I am starting high school next year. Would I be more attractive if I lost weight? Like if I got down to 120?
2007-03-11 15:27:24 · 23 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS. I have already had a bf, I've got lots of friends, I AM curvy, and I never have pimples. However I do agree that more guys would like me as more then a friend material if I was thinner. But what should I try to get down to. I have a horribly slow metabolism so it will be hard but I am willing to do it.
2007-03-11 16:04:39 · update #1
Yes, but please don't go anorexic..
2007-03-11 15:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the most guys to be attracted to you as possible, yes. Lose weight. People will say "you're pretty just the way you are", which sounds nice, but that does you a disservice if you're looking for honesty.
Guys generally are less attracted to overweight girls than slim ones.
To lose weight, diet and exercise. It's the only thing that actually works.
2007-03-11 22:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm. i dont want to sound offencive or anything like that. from most of my experience with guys, they do like girls who are a bit on the 120 side than 140. i myself weight 120 and it works pretty good. my friend on the other hand is 140 or somewhere around there. well i dont think she ever had a boyfriend. its your own choice, but i already go to high school and guys go after skinny girls. you are probably already beautiful inside and out, but loosing a few pounds would definitely make guys go crazy for you.
hope this helps:)
2007-03-11 22:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the weight is probably in the chest. u dont need to lose 20 pounds! maybe 10 at the most, if u really want to. that wouldnt make u prettier though, it wouuld make u slimmer.
2007-03-11 22:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHH honey no you are beatuiful the way you are! And don't listen to what other people say. Im 5 3and 155 and guys like me for me dont change for any one else but yourself!
2007-03-11 22:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by jacks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real man likes his woman thick, if your healthy and it's your naturaly body type you will find a man who will treat you like the Goddess you are. The little metrosexuals that like super scrawny women you wouldn't want anyways, you'd have to fight them over the mirror.
2007-03-11 22:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not worry about your weight but make sure you are not over weight. To be prettier make sure you have no pimples and also make sure that you are one of the smartest one in your class to gain attention and also make sure that you do not smell or have dandruff.
2007-03-11 22:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Dhiren B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be atractive at wath ever weight you are but if you consider your selft, not looking good the way you are all rite the thing is that you are conforemed of who you are.
2007-03-11 22:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by HUGO B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way that scary you probably are as pretty as a petal right now you could excersize but dont go on a diet. dont listen to the creeps that tell u to do it
2007-03-11 22:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by hsmstam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe weight loss. I'm a guy, 5'6", and only weigh 5 lbs. more.
Still, if you don't look your weight, which is certainly possible, then don't worry.
2007-03-11 22:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE--NO !!! Guys like curves,believe it or not!!! And at 145lb,5.5" I'll bet you got more curves than Mullholland Dr. in Beverly hills!!!! WOWSA YOWSA HUBBA BUBBA!!!!!
2007-03-11 22:36:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋