2007-03-11 15:21:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explain to her that you have just started seeing someone, your ex is back in the picture, you have a long distance girl friend you met on the internet, etc. and you want to be respectful to them. Tell her your girlfriend would not appreciate what she is doing, and then ask what she would do in the same boat. Explain that you would do it for her, so why wouldn't she do it for you?
Make her feel like she's doing something for you by not calling, and put the attention back on her.
She'll get it. If not, just be blunt. Tell he you like her, but not that way, and by calling you all the time, she's actually pushing you away.
If that doesn't work, get her family/friends to talk to her, block her number, or get a restraining order. I don't think it will get that far (I hope!). ;)
2007-03-11 15:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by reginachick22 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many ways pal cause all girls are different. She calls you at any time because she is in love with you and perhaps she is unsecure or you didn´t give her the necesary warranties to feel her secure in the relation with you (I don´t know if she is your friend or girlfriend). My modest opinion is: Be direct and straight forward: Talk to her personally, do not shout or say bad words, do not make comparisons and explain her clearly your feelings respect to this situation. Tell her that you have things to do, that you sometimes feel interrupted by her calls but these doesn´t mean that you do not love her. And you need to work with her and alone to find what are the causes what make her feel unsecure in the relationship. And remember: There men like you that cry because a girl is calling them all the time; there other men who cry because all the time no girl calls them. I recommend you too say: Thanks god, a woman other than my mother is worried about me.
2007-03-11 22:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by alfredo_mathew 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you are getting sick of the phone calls and that it's causing you problems, no offence but there is never a nice way to get someone to stop bugging you.
2007-03-11 22:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just dont pick up. u dont gotta change ur number. if u stop picking up all her calls she'll hopefully get the hint. OR when she calls have a girl pick up ur phone acting like she is your girlfriend, she could tell her things like why are u caling my man?, or i dont want you to call my man anymore. you can do things like that and maybe she wont call anymore
2007-03-11 22:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by rf1973 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well here are a few ideas.
1. Change your number
2. ask her to stop calling you please
3. tell her you're gay
4. tell her you have aids
5. pick up and hang up
6. have another girl pick up your phone
7. tell her you have a girlfriend and it bugs your girlfriend when she calls
8. say you're running out of minutes on your cell
Goodluck =]]
2007-03-11 22:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can tell her that you really do not want her to keep calling you- simple as that. Dont sugar coat it and say you are involved, gay or infected with anything- just tell her the truth. If she doesnt appeal to you or she wants something that you arent willing to give her than tell her that.
2007-03-11 22:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whenever she calls, say u have to call her back cuz ur busy. and then do that the next time she calls to. do it like, any time she calls, and never call her back. if she doesnt get the hint, then just b like, can u stop calling me, i have sooo many things to do, i have no time to talk with u. its her fault if she doesnt get the hint earlier.
2007-03-11 22:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't pick up everytime she calls, sooner or later she will either confront you about it (and you can then politely but firmly tell her that you can't always be around to talk to her on the phone) or she will just naturally back off and take the hint
2007-03-11 22:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by peaches87 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get people to take messages for you, or whenever she calls be polite but tell her you are busy and cannot talk. She will get the hint but be able to keep her pride.
2007-03-11 22:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by Laura H 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her:i think you are a realy sweet girl adn i love talkign to you, but i think you are calign a little to much, and sometimes i feel preasured to talk because i dont have time, you can still call me but not as much, adn i will call you if i want to talk. Thanks
2007-03-11 22:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by Genny gen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋