Alright, I'm in high school, and I really like my female friend. I'm not sure whether she likes me or not. Sometimes, it seems like she does, but other times, it doesn't. But anyway, I've learned that her parents don't let her go out much, and only when they really know the person. I've met her parents, but don't really know them, so I don't know if it's just an excuse or not. But anyway....I've decided to try other girls. I think I've accepted the fact that she might not like me as anything more than a friend. However, even though I might look for other girls, I really like this girl a lot, and I'm gonna continue to be her friend. I'm not sure if she knows I like her thought. No, I'm not just gonna tell her lol. What are some things I can do in the meantime to SUBTLY let her know I like her? Like, what can we talk about, what can I ask her, what can I do?? lol.
2007-03-11 15:18:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take advantage of any opportunity that you have to talk to her even if it's just 'Hi'. Smile whenever you see her (she will know you're pleased to see her) and be polite and nice to her. Eventually, she will notice that you pay especial attention to her and might start liking you.
I relate to her. My parents didn't let me go out much either when I was in HS. My ex boyfriend, who was my classmate, was shy and never told me that he liked me. However, I did notice it b/c he was nice to me and also noticed he looked at me often. Eventually, I fell for him b/c not only was he such a gentleman but also respected the fact that I could not go out to certain places with him. We had a beautiful relationship that I still don't know if distance will break it apart.
2007-03-11 15:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by BeckhamGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm on the other end of this right now, so I know what it's like. If she's told you her p's are like that it means, I can't do more because I just can't, but if she just catches your eye from a cross the room and just smiles and some times you do something odd or dumb or just a little silly and you see her smiling to her self, or she just likes asking you things or she seems to say your name a lot, or even just smiles when ever she talks to you even if she smiles a lot, what you can do is always look at her when she talks, try to catch her eye as much as you can and just smile, it makes a girl glow to have a guy who thy are even just friends with look at them in thy eyes and smile, and it can be from a cross a room and that's the best way to let her know. If your looking at her with a smile then she knows.
2007-03-11 22:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Cjara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I know it sounds really difficult, but you need to tell her how you feel. Do this however you like, be creative. However do not, under any circumstances, assume that she doesn't like you more than a friend. The only real way to find out is to ask her. I know I make it sound too easy, right? Well if you think about it...it is. if she's not interested she'll tell you. Now, while that might be embarrassing, it's better than regretting it in the future right?
2007-03-11 22:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Smirx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really just something you have to feel out. If there's a lot of smiling, touching, eye contact when she's around you, then she might be interested. If she treats you just like one of her girl friends or other guy friends, or talks to you about guys she likes, then you're pretty much out of luck.
But if you're good enough friends, telling her shouldn't hurt anything. Even if she's not into you you'll still be friends.
2007-03-11 22:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways to tell a girl you like her and still keep your distance for a while. You guys are friends so maybe be more playful to her (laugh more when you're with her and just be a "fun-loving guy"). Look at her in the eyes and just have fun with her. Joke around a bit.
2007-03-11 22:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Roger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you could end up making things more complicated by dating other girls because no matter how subtle or bluntly you try to let her know you like her, she won't think you like her if you're with another girl. if you are truly interested in her for a serious relationship, i suggest you spend alot of time with her, build her trust, AND her parent's trust. find out things she likes & go from there. it's the little things that are appreicated and make girls happy.
good luck & try not to make the situation more complicated than it needs to be!
2007-03-11 22:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by peaches87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her, be her friend to the best you can. Spend time with her, hang out & stuff. Eventually she might pick up on it, but in the mean time you can still get close to her & hang out with her friends & family so if she does like you, then at least their used to you being around. Hope I helped..
2007-03-11 22:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by ElizabethKay™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to her house and bring some movies every weekend or so, bring her something to eat and just spend time together at her parents house. You will soon know if you should keep going after her or if you should leave her alone
2007-03-11 22:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A word from the wise. Just ignore her and move on!! If she likes you she'll let you know!! Date other people maybe even some of her friends to make her jealous! That's how you attract women nowadays!! Make them very jealous!!!!
2007-03-11 22:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by JC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the post before me, deffinatley try and get to know her parents. but what to talk about? you could be subtle and drop a hint here n there, or you could be straight and be like "hey I am wild about you, accept it or not it's not going to change the way I feel about you, and it's not going to change our friendship" good luck
2007-03-11 22:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by smoke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋