I'm a highschool drop out on my third semester of college, I am a Comp Sci major.
I'm a bit of a nerd/computer geek but at the same time I'm a music fiend, I play guitar, I love being outdoors, especially backpacking, I'd rather live in the woods than in the city. I lost my virginity a month before I turned 16, and I started smoking weed even before then, which is something I do almost daily, not because I need to kill time, but it just helps me focus. With school I can sit down and concentrate and code an entire program in like 15 minutes perfectly, or I can read my chapter or do my calc homework without a problem, and talk about being totally focused in on my class lecture. I play a lot of hacky sack and I have 3 best friends, two of which have girlfriends and we all hang out and get along great. I'm a pretty open person, and I think I live life very free and open. I rarely get mad I realize this is long.. you can message me back if you're curious
2007-03-11 14:58:19 · 23 answers · asked by smoke 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are a high school drop out and now In college? how does that work? but yes.. the comp sci major, bit of a nerd/computer geek, music fiend, guitar playing, being outdoors, backpacking, woods-living kind of stuff all sounds really great!! you sound like a fun guy! the only part i wouldn't like is that you smoke weed daily.. just because i would hate to watch yourself killing yourself (even though that is not why you do it i understand.. i have just seen too many people destroyed by drugs..) that's good you do your homework and can concentrate and focus and stuff though! i just wish you could find some other way that didn't harm you for the long run! :( because an amazing guy like you doesn't need his life cut short!!! that's cool you play hacky sack and are an open person and everything... everything Else besides the drugs sounds perfect to me!!
2007-03-11 15:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of that is attractive. But without knowing what you look like (just being honest), it's hard to tell you if most women or even a lot of women would find you attractive.
What I mean is, if you consider yourself a nerd, that brings to mind some things that might only be attractive to another nerd. If you are out of shape (a lot of computer geeks spend a lot of time in their chairs or on the couch, eating fast food while they fiddle with programs), have bad skin (fast food again, and too preoccupied with the cerebral to care much about good hygiene), poor social skills (a lot of women aren't all that interested in video games, computer programing, et cetera--make sure you can talk about other things too), and poor fashion sense, that's not sexy.
I don't think the fact that you dropped out of highschool is a turnoff necessarily, because you obviously got your G.E.D. if you could enroll in college. And the pot smoking? Well, just try not to become a complete pothead. It messes with your motivation sometimes, and being a couch potato is only sexy to other couch potatoes. Plus, after a while, your sex drive takes a dive, and most women like a guy who wants to knock the boots with intensity fairly regularly.
The music stuff is hot though.
Is this what you were asking?
2007-03-11 15:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NONE of that is attractive at all. Drop out? ehh. Computer nerd? ehh. Outdoors and guitar?uhh thats fine.. but Weed? eww. Women dont like crackheads. Its just weird. If you ever want a woman.. then finish college get a good job stop smoking weed.. and stop with the hacky sack. thats the nerdiest thing ever.
2007-03-11 15:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah actually i would go out with someone like you. I have a lot of friends that play hacky sack and guitar. I mean I would rather have a guy that wasnt so much into drugs. that is a big turn off. but otherwise you sound pretty cool.
2007-03-11 15:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Shibby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um im a woman and not attractive the weed the dropout i like u have friends ur a lil nerdy which ok hacky sack ok i dont like u dont have ur virginity i love u like to go be outdoors i love u play guitar i like u rarely get mad
2007-03-11 15:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The smoking weed isn't cool because it is illegal. Being open is cool and being laid back is okay but I like a little bit of a go getter too.
2007-03-11 15:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't worry about what others think. If they judge you or don't think you're attractive, then they aren't the right person for you anyway. I'm sure there are lots of gals out there just like you who'd think you were attractive based on your similar interests.
2007-03-11 15:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by CandyLandCondoResident 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guitar thing was kool i am learnig guitar.....but the restyou might want to fix up or find some one that has the same taste as you.... also the hackie thihg is awesome i love to hackie
2007-03-11 15:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by swim chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK,first of all,LOSE THE DRUGS!!!!women hate drugs,even if it helps you focus.but,we also like the guitar/outdoorsy type of man.The hacky-sac is geeky.do that in your free time.Well,every thing else is pretty much ok.Good Luck getting the ladies!!
2007-03-11 15:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by eVeRyBoDy SiNg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats great what every woman is looking for a pothead who cares nothing about wether its legal or not i just thought i would express my opion
2007-03-11 15:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋