I met a guy I really liked it appeared to be mutual. But he had a difficult ex to deal with. She has only just moved out of his house and has caused alot of drama. Stalking him, trying to figure out who I am ringing texting etc. Anyway we both found it a bit stressful abd he said he needed a few weeks to clear his head. Sort a few things out etc. I was a bit taken aback. I have asked him point blank, is it a cowards way of saying "I'm not into you anymore, c ya". But heclaims no he actually needs a few weeks, that he cant go straight from her to me etc. But if its all good shoudnt you work through it?
Is he having me on, too scared to be striaght with me. I annoy him by questioning him. I have let him alone anyway. Should I be insulted, pleased. We both thought we had fallen in love prior to this break so its very hard. What do you think?
2007-03-11 14:51:53 · 10 answers · asked by browneyestrish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're involved with a guy whose ex is just now moving out of his house? So while she was living with him, he was seeing you on the side. You say that you both thought you'd fallen in love? You are just going to be a rebound relationship for him. He needs time---more than a few weeks---to think carefully before jumping into another relationship with you, and you need to realize that if he was seeing you when he had a live-in girlfriend, he could easily do the same to you. I would give him all the time he needs, but I would proceed with caution where he is concerned and definitely not put all my eggs in one basket. I'd take it real slow.
2007-03-11 15:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I know it hard to put love on hold. You want to just jump right in and spend every moment together and have fun. But this is his request and you must respect that. This is what happens when you get involved with someone so soon after ending a relationship. The ex is hurt and is trying to get him back. Let him work it out, completely get rid of her and if it all works out then he will come to you worry free and free of a stalker and you guys can enjoy each other without any anxiety.
Patience is a virtue, remember that.
2007-03-11 14:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just based upon your incoherent rambling and poor grammar, I would guess that you're not very intelligent and thus likely annoying to your love interest. Stop being a nuisance and give the guy some space.
2007-03-11 14:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he just needs his space. How does he know that if he gets with you that you are not going to turn out to be just like his ex. If I was you then I would just let him have a few weeks for space. he needs to feel free and not always connected to.
2007-03-11 15:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice: this guy appears to be secretive. Have you ever considered your future? If the man who claimed to like you is still into an ex, you will be dealing with many problems later on. If he can't tell his ex "no", beware of the various scenarios that are likely to occur later.
2007-03-11 14:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by lexie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are his rebound and it won't work out trust me he still may have feelings for his ex and is probably trying to decide wether or not to go back with her, get on with your life and don't hold your breath waiting for him
2007-03-11 14:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This "guy" likes you?Tell the Other "girl" that he's seeing others right now.
2007-03-11 14:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isnt worth your time . You'll find someone better.
2007-03-11 14:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by wendieann1064 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see.
2007-03-11 14:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be insulted i am sure you deserve it
2007-03-11 14:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋