my ex droped my son off and he had to talk to me about our son so he stayed for awhile and talked about our son and my boyfriend walked in and after 5 minites he started acting funny like i was with him but we were only talking about our son and he came in and stated picing a fight with my ex and i told him it wasnt right to talk to him like that and he said it was but i told him to apoligize for talking to him like that and he said not in a millon years so i just think he was jelous so is he in the right or am i
2007-03-11 14:50:55 · 5 answers · asked by trishie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe that by you spending time with your ex alone, with no one else around, That gives a proper and understood reasoning behind your bf 's reaction. For the man (your ex) was someone you had a relationship with.
In order to love fully, one must be sensitive to there lover s feelings. By now, I doubt that You did not already know your boyfriend enough to realize what his reaction would have been.
Because of that, it would have been more wiser to tell your ex that you will only discuss , in front of the presence of your boyfriend. And that you have to talk with Him , your boyfriend, First.
This is love. For it is being sensitive.
Wether your boyfriend , after you talk, decides to be present or not for your meeting with your ex, doesn t matter, what Would mattter is that you at least let Him Know Ahead of Time.
Even if your ex poped the question off guard.
2007-03-11 15:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are totally right. I think that he should have just asked you what you were talking about and kinda listened into the conversation. I mean if yall was talking about getting beck together and he heard than thats a different story. But if was just about your son then you are totally right. good luck on your realationship with him.
2007-03-11 21:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Shibby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's the jealous one. He will try just about everything he can to get you back. I would suggest you pick a
spot to pick up and drop off your kids. Every time he sees you
with another guy it'll be the same don't put yourself in between
them when they want to fight just call the cops and have his *ss carted of to jail!
2007-03-11 21:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your boyfriend is insecure. he needs to understand no matter if he stays in your life or not you have to talk to your child father. you are right but dont be mean about it try to sit down and talk to him
2007-03-11 21:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by peachez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have to explain yrself to him, if hedoesn't tryst you he's not good enough for you
2007-03-11 21:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by yeahh_buddy23231 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋