okay i am 15, not beautiful, but not ugly. and i have never had a boyfriend. i have lots of guy friends, and i know of some guys that have liked me before, but iv'e never been asked out. what is the problem? i just cant believe that girls were getting boyfriends at 12 and 13 and im almost 16 and havnt had one. im not a nerd or anything, i have lots of friends, but im really confused about this....please help!
2007-03-11 14:50:24 · 31 answers · asked by fuzz_bucket06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey im 19 and ive only had one bf in my life (that only lasted a few months!)
trust me its not all that its cracked up to be...not enough to rush into esp. at an age like that.
im the same way, not beautiful but not necessarily ugly. i wish i had guy friends like you though...i believe i only have one guy friend and yesterday was the first time ive said anything to him in several months.
you should feel lucky that you have plenty of guy friends..if you like someone enough get closer to them just dont make it serious. what im saying is take it slow, it is too soon to be bf & gf. you can start dating the guy a while (or if you want you can be friends w/benefits instead) and eventually you can decide to make it serious..but not until you have a little experience.
even though its my ex's fault, i believe our relationship could of worked out better if we had started dating first instead of rushing into being a couple. then he might not have been tempted to cheat..who knows really?
2007-03-11 18:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Garbo's snowflake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey your'e 15, dont panic. i was the same at that age. I used to wonder if i would ever get a boyfriend. I had my first when i was 17 so you have loads of time to catch up...im now with the love of my life, it took me a few boyfriends to get there but did. i find that just being yourself and being natural is the best way whatever you dodont act as guys will eventually see through it. You will get a great boyfriend soon enough, After a few you will wonder what all the fuss was about. Good luck.
2007-03-11 14:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is probably not what you want to hear, but I wouldn't worry about it. The right guy will come along at the right time. Until then, maybe your just avoiding a bunch of guys that would be bad news anyway. There is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend.
2007-03-11 14:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by songndance1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't worry about it. Maybe just be a little more outgoing and when you're around guys make sure that you seem interested. Some guys need a lot of help before they're ready to try.
2007-03-11 14:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll go out with ya! lol!
You sound just like me.. honestly, 15, not beautiful or handsom (well..heh, maybe I am!), I've only flirted but not been in a serious relationship..
You're not the only one .. just wait until the time comes.. most guys your age will screw you around (my mates are an example, I hate them for their attitude to girls).
Not everyone seeks relationship as others do.
Dys.
2007-03-11 14:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys at your age are immature. They only want sex. They will not respect you. Any guy that you decide to "give it up" to, will go around telling exagerated tales to his friends about his sexual encounter with you. I say, hold out until you are 18. Guys actually consider marriage with women who haven't been with every guy on the block. Therefore, you will have the upperhand, later in life.
BTW, most fairy-tale stories about happily ever-after are complete falisies. Marriage is only a good thing when you consider economics and raising children. In reality, you and your husband will most likely cheat on eachother constantly and grow to despise eachother. However, think about the children!
2007-03-11 14:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by jimmyb20032003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to have a boyfriend, it may be hard but you have 2 wait for the right time and right guy. Most people have had many boyfriends because they think it's cool but you should only date someone if you could see yourself marrying them. And don't try to make guys like you, they should like you for who you are. Don't worry your time will come.
2007-03-11 15:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by oj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 and no boyfriend? Not a big deal. You'll get married some day and spend the rest of your life (hopefully) with that one person. Why get tied down?
To answer your question, don't sweat it, I didn't get a girlfriend until I was 18...then it sucked. Anyways, go to college, you'll meet tons of guys.
2007-03-11 14:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by MrMister 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is way to much fuss over dating. There is not point to it. It's just an excuse for someone to be lovy-dovy with someone, or to be labled as "together". Some people say they do it to get to know each other, but don't you just get to know your friends too? Don't worry about it. I'm 16, and have never dated, and just recently have met guy friends.
2007-03-11 14:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to find a boyfriend that will last is to build a friendship with them first. But seeing as how this will be your very first boyfriend maybe you should give it a "practice run" first and just pick any guy that you think is attractive and flirt with him. Good Luck!
2007-03-11 14:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Rissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋