one of my dads "old time" friends has come back to town-- and i just moved back with my dad too. this friend of his is giving me stuff- and not forgetting to mention it was expensive.
then he tells me he's going out of town to a near city and asks me if i want to go to mcdonalds... i feel like he's trying to hook up with me :P
maybe i am getting the wrong impression?..? ee.
but i dont want to mess things up with my dad and his friendship and i dont want to feel uncomfortable or embarassed for saying all this out in the open... i dont like this guy and i dont want to "hook" up with him.
i dont exactly know my situation-- or how i should proceed to deal with it if it is what i think.
help- thanks :P
and- he may know a prior situation i was in when i got together with a way older guy.- so maybe thats why he's..?
2007-03-11 14:48:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah that may be a reason why because you have been with a older man but.But hey try to stay calm and go with the flow because he might be doing it out of the kindness of his heart.you really don't know until he comes on to you so stay calm.Unlesss you want to come out and just ask him
2007-03-11 14:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by weeping eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a girl with some common sense......so use it!!! You know darn well why this man is treating you this way and what he's after. Put a stop to it now. Whatever he's given you...give it back. Politely tell him thanks but you can't accept anymore gifts from him and whatever you do........don't get yourself into a situation where you and he are alone together!
By accepting things from him you are allowing him to think he's getting somewhere with you and maybe he can get more.
Just my thoughts!
2007-03-11 22:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just tell your dad
2007-03-11 21:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice when you say NO!
2007-03-11 21:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋