OK I have been dating this AWESOME guy for a little over a month or so and last night we had sex for the first time. It was actually the first time I even saw / felt his manhood.
Well to my suprise he is, to put it gently, SMALL!!!!
I know, I know it shouldn't really matter but in a way it does. It was to the point where I could hardly feel him inside of me at all!
I don't know what to do.... Should I say screw it and move on, or should I say it doesn't matter and stay?
We have sooo much in common. He is like the perfect guy for me, instead of that one little problem. (please excuse the pun lol)
AHHHH!!! PLZ HELP!!!!
2007-03-11 14:46:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is much more to a relationship than just sex. If you guys click, stay with him! if the chemistry is there all the time, then the size should not matter
2007-03-11 14:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anna =] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, many say that it's not the size of it, but how you use it. But if you can barely feel it, then this is something you have to decide on your own. Although it's not his fault it's small....so don't hold that against him. So if he's all that good to you, then maybe you can work your way around that little problem. If that little problem is too much a big problem to you, then you'll need to move on. Think about this very carefully. Best of luck to you.
2007-03-11 21:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said: He's perfect "BUT". Now it's up to you to figure out how big of a BUT that is. Are you willing to deal with it: try other sexual "diversions" (hehehe) or go out in search of the truly perfect guy..that has all the qualities you want..including size.
Don't settle if this truly matters to you. This reminds me of that Sex and the City episode where Samantha was in your exact situation. She left him. I would also.
2007-03-11 21:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by R! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure but maybe you could try some new techniques that might help you a little but it's ok I know how you feel. once you fall even more head over heels it will begin to be a smaller and smaller problem (no punn intended) good luck
2007-03-11 21:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol the size does matter sweetie... damn that was bad luck... lol.. is he under 5 inches? damn... someone with a size below that will have serious sex problems...whoever says the size doesn't matter is probably a guy with a small penis.
2007-03-11 21:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta decide what you want and what you need. Maybe another position or another angle. If it matters, it matters, if it doesn't (to you), then it doesn't - YOU've gotta decide.
Let me ask you this - How's his mouth work?
Or maybe some Viagra or Cialis - that does give you quite an increase.
2007-03-11 21:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How important is it to you? There are positions that are better if he is small. You will have to try some and see how they work.
2007-03-11 22:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try different positions like from the back or on your side. also there are natural enhancment medicines. it sucks when you found a great guy and he has a little penis:(
2007-03-11 21:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by peachez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you care about him , size of his well .....shouldnt matter .
You could always sagest more foreplay .....
2007-03-11 21:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by wendieann1064 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get that swedish pump austin powers uses.
2007-03-11 22:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by CharmingEric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋