i live with my dad.
my mom has like mental issues.
but not she is better and lives close.
every weekend she munipulates me to see her.
well i tell her i have plans and she keeps assking.
its not fair to me, im 13. i have a life, friends, and homework.
what is your opinion.?
2007-03-11 14:43:59 · 4 answers · asked by yoanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you should set aside at least one or 2 hrs a week with her, at least! she deserves to b part of ur life, and you too!
2007-03-11 14:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ELI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what her conditions are and since she lives close by, you should go visit her on when you can. She is still your mother. I can understand if she tried to hurt you in any way, you should make an effort to visit her.
I just don't understand how she manipulates you, in what ways? What type of mental issues does she have?
If your mom has rights to see you, then you should see her. But, if you think that she is a violent person, then stay away from her.
Life can be fair if you give the person another chance. Your mom keeps asking you because she wants to have that relationship with her daughter. But, it seems like you just don't want to have anything to do with her. There has to be a reason why you feel so distance towards her.
2007-03-11 21:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have one mother. I understand at your age friends are important. Maybe you can take a friend along with you to visit your Mom. Let her get to know your friends too. Maybe you could visit her after school through the week and that way it would free up your weekends. Maybe try going on Sundays only. Phoning her doesnt take much time all you have to do is keep in touch even just to say how are you? It sounds to me she wants you in her life. Your lucky some dont.
2007-03-11 21:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by itybittykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be nice if you wanted to see your Mom, maybe she misses you. I know it's hard at your age to relate to her on some issues but it will get better as you get older.
I would just try to make an effort to spend a couple hours of quaility time every week with her. She may be feeling left out of your life and wanting to get closer to you. Maybe this will be all she needs.
2007-03-11 21:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋