I was in a 6 year relationship.. we are now broken up. I told him I needed time to think of what I wanted to do with my life.. I freaked out because I felt like we were eventually going to get married and this scared the crap out of me. I am only 22 years old and he is 25.. for a pretty long time we had an opened relationship.. and then went back together totally without the openness.. this made it extremely confusing. I love him so much but a lot of things have been going on in my life that have made me depressed and scared. I am graduating from college this summer... I am in terrible debt.. I have no idea what I want to do with my life.. and on top of all that.. i have this guy i have been with for 6 years who I broke up with because I felt like I had to figure out my whole life in a few months. I do not even know how I feel anymore.. He recently told me that he missed me and wanted to see me. I just came home on spring break.. and I do not know what I should do!?
2007-03-11 14:37:35 · 4 answers · asked by Denise G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be honest with this guy and tell him how you feel. Are you really willing to give up a stable 6 year relationship because of you not being honest with him, maybe he feels the same as you. You need to relax and go with the flow, don't stress about what might happen think about what is happening now.
2007-03-11 14:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should focus on yourself. a relationship is not something you need right now. you need to just take time out and get u together
2007-03-11 21:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Thyk L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friends with him until you're settled. i think it would help to have him around
2007-03-11 21:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by omygosh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run girl run!!
2007-03-11 21:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by ziggie44134 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋