help i need help talking girls ??????????????

Question

im reallly good looking and girls have said im good looking but every time i wanna approach a girl that i like i freeze up and get nervous and think about what if she rejects me i mean i wanna walk up and talk to the ladies but the feeling of rejection is holdin me back could somebody help me get over this problem

Answer 1

try this pick up line "do you come here often?" it will work

Answer 2

Everyone is afraid of rejection. Before you can feel confident in front of others and make confident approaches you really need to become comfortable with yourself. It may also help to review the things you plan to say, or if you're in a bar scene, have a drink to loosen your tie, i mean don't get sloshed, just something to take the edge off. It may be a good idea to have a pal introduce you to someone if they are associated. Also i might try to just strike up conversation without any expectations, just start up light conversation, it may just be the ice breaker you need to get things sailing smoothly.

Answer 3

First off, RELAX. I know girls can seem intimidating sometimes and it's always a big deal NOT to seem like an idiot. However, practice makes perfect. You're going to have to get out there and start talking. Yes, sometimes you may screw up and say something goofy but that's all part of learning. Once you get the hang of it you will naturally get better.

Answer 4

rejection is a part of life. i always think that the only way to overcome rejection, is to accept it. if u really like this girl, and do not ask her out, u might go through the rest of your life wondering...what if?? i am telling u to go 4 it. if u get rejected, so what. if she says yes, asking girls out will not seem so hard. try it out and you might over come your fear.

Answer 5

just when u wanna talk to a girl just go up to her and talk about something familar to u not sports or any thing but like, a class u have together or something like that. and if u really are good looking she'll think it's cute even if u think u look and feel tottaly stupid. so don't worry.

Answer 6

If you are THAT Good Looking just sit there and they will come to you. You won't have to say anything!
If you are THAT Good Looking get over it.
If you were just a regular guy with regular looks you wouldn't have a problem, would you?

Try to be regular not good looking! Girls might be more approachable!

Answer 7

Relax.Girls want a good looking guy to approach us. Even if she does reject you... its ok. Get over it and move on to the next girl. Just remember looks arent everything. you have to have the personality too.

Answer 8

Hang out with guys that aren't afraid to talk to the ladies and hopefully it will rub off on you!!! I did this, except for I am a girl so I hungout with my friend who is well-liked by the guys and it rubbed off on me and I am SOO not afraid to approach a guy and start talking to him anymore!! Just be like "Hey ladies whats crackin?" lol... thats hott.

Answer 9

Whenever you like a girl, it's normal to "freeze up" like that. Totally normal, trust me. Anyways, just act like you normally would; it's not like you two are going to go out right away at that second so you shouldn't be worried about it!

Answer 10

stop feeling so vulerable!!!! u need to push yourself out there and do something new... talk to a girl!!! be urself, but be humorous! i love a guy thats not afraid to tell me how he feels, and has a sense of humor. But don't try so hard to impress, either... i hate that.... TRUST CHICKADEE. need help, im me: melrocks144

Answer 11

Get over it, Say hi i'm proudtob, how are you.
Any half polite being will give an answer and then take it from there.