I treated my ex l;ike crap and he broke up with me. I love him and want him back. Usually I acted bad towards him when he was smoking weed. I know it is not good, but I knew he smoked when I met him. I just acted crazy over it. I should not have , it is not worth ruining a 2 yr realtionship. I want him back. He said he can't stand me anymore b/c of all my nagging. Please help. I need to speak with him. It has been 5 days since he dumped me.
2007-03-11 14:17:50 · 11 answers · asked by Im a lonely girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call him up and apologize to him and get him back.
simple stuff.
2007-03-11 14:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you feel like you messed up and ruined a good two year relationship, but instead of thinking like that you need to think more positive. Was it really a good relationship if you weren't happy with him smoking weed? Instead you should think he ruined it, by not quiting or slowing down. It's obvious you want the best for him, him smoking weed is doing more harm than good, regarding his health, getting or keeping a job, etc... Relationships are all about compromise if someone can't compromise it won't work anyways. I would suggest moving on, it is lots of guys out there who would treat you right and don't smoke weed. Good Luck, hope this helped!!!
2007-03-11 14:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by tha_best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when we treat men badly it's because we want them to break up with us or we're sick of the same old crap al the time. If you can't handle him smoking then i don't think you are ever going to be able to have a good reltaionship with him cause my guess is that he isn't willing to give it up for you. That just shows you what he considers to be more important in his life and sorry but you aren't it. I used to be a smoker and thought it was the best thing in my life and gave up lots because of it. Your guy seems as though he loves it too much. If he knows it upset you so much and continued doing it around you then he isn't thinking of you anyway.
2007-03-11 14:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you treated him like crap because it bothered u. theres nothing wrong with that. Maybe when u met him he did that but maybe you've changed in two years and have smartened up about what u want and dont want in a boyfriend.
Go with ur instinct ...if it bothers u then you need to tell him..if his response is to break up with u then think about it...he is picking his weed over u.
A relationship is based on compromise and he doenst sound like he is willing to do that for u. Let him go..you'll be glad u did later on. It will be hard at first but at least u dont have to worry about dating someone who likes to do drugs. Be STRONG! You are worth it even though he doesnt think so.
2007-03-11 14:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by PrettyBright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 20:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by blacker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now why would you nag him on something you already knew he did. if you get with somebody its for who they are, not what they might be. you had no right to tell him anything at all. thats just the way he is, you should have learned to live with it. the best thing i say you could do is get on your knees and beg him for forgiveness, i know i wouldnt take anything less than that!
2007-03-11 15:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by CharmingEric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding, right? Why would you want to be with someone who was a pothead???? Not to mention, if he gets busted, you'll prolly get busted too......i don't think jail time would be a blast to tell you the truth....don't look back or think twice about losing the bum!
2007-03-11 14:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by rocketgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant change someone and breaking up and getting back together gets harder each time. If you don't like him smoking then you don't like him for who he is. You need to find someone that doesn't mind your nagging...Trust me, it works better like that.
2007-03-11 14:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by MyOpinionMatters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,i think he had wanted to break up with u before this last thing and u gave him an excuse for breaking up by treating like crap.
2007-03-11 14:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by Derin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u did this because u want change him to be good but u must accpet all he's either bad and good... not easy to change people (take time)... if u want him back, u should learn accept all he's either bad and good... You try talk with him that you will learn accept who he's...both together must be compromise...
2007-03-11 15:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by babyga1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pathetic...I mean really! Why would you want a pot head. You sound desperate for affection.
2007-03-11 14:22:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋