i have a 13 yr old daughter and she is so very rude to everyone especially to her mother she tells her to shutup and get out of her face and never minds and i have no more answers to this problem she has gotton outta control is this a stage or what ppl need some help
2007-03-11 14:14:55 · 8 answers · asked by da8man2004 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I worked with a wise woman who turned me onto a different aspect of parenting.
She told me when her kids got out of control she cleaned there room completely out. All of there personal possesions were taken. All the way down to there clothes, blankets, pillows, bath soap, towels to dry off, bed sheets, underwear, and shampoo. Everything!! Except what they were currently wearing.
She then explained to me that they had a chance everyday to earn one thing back by being respectful to her and her husband. I will do the same if my daughters pull that. Let me tell you something, you start taking things away, they change there attitude.
When I say take away, I mean lock up at a mini storage, not put in the garage. Try it. Good luck.
2007-03-11 14:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have 3 daughters and a son, they have all tried to test the water to see who is tough. It's a right of passage that I was more than happy to deny them access to. It isn't a stage it is disrespect. You're going to have to show her who is in charge before you lose control all together. People make parenting sound so hard and nearly impossible. If you would stop playing the "we're equals" game all the time and become an adult it is actually pretty easy. Everyone just wants the quick fix or somebody to say it'll be ok.
2007-03-11 15:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you for genuine? no longer in basic terms is this extraordinarily unlawful yet its additionally gonna make certain your chum definately loses her job and could never get a job as a instructor back. And movies like that are everywhere in the internet besides, taking by skill of a few youngsters observing the combat. youngsters shouldnt behave like that and adults surely shouldnt the two. Sorry to be harsh, thtas in basic terms my opinion!
2017-01-04 08:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yes it is out of control and if u are the mother and care you would teach her a lesson and everytime she does that you can wash her mouth out with soap or ground her! Dont give into her! No matter what it takes you need to win the battle in this case.
2007-03-11 14:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Little of both. It is a stage, and a long one, unfortunately - welcome to life with a teenager. However, she still needs to be respectful of her mother. I'm sorry I have no suggestions but I have not yet figured out how to get through to a teenager. Good luck with that!
2007-03-11 15:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Hilary M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
DEAR
FIRST WASH HER MOUTH OUT WITH SOAP SPANK HER GOOD LET HER KNOW SHE IS NOT TO OLD TO BE SPANKED ON THE BOTTOM AND THEN PUT HER ON HER KNEES IN THE CONNER NOSE TO THE WALL OK
ALL PROBLEMS SOLVED PS SHE DOES NOT THINK YOU HAVE THE WILL AND THE GUTS TO DO IT SHOW HER SHE IS WRONG AND VERY MISTAKING OK.
TAKE CARE
2007-03-11 21:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to take her to see a counselor. I was like that when I was that age. She more likely got's built up fustrastion and needs some one to talk to it help me at the time.
2007-03-11 15:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by Tara Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its a stage.... i'm a 13 y/o girl... i know....
2007-03-11 15:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋