I met a girl a few weeks ago .. we went on one date. but i get the feeling that she dont like me. i mean when i asked her she told me that she wanted to take things slow..which is not a bad thing if i must add...but we both work and go to school ssssooo the only time i am able to see her is on sundays...should i keep on pushing or just leave it alone.. do she like me or not.. theres so many questions..PS every time i ask her if she likes me she always avoid that question...
2007-03-11 14:10:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she doesnt really like you a whole lot... or she still isnt sure.
It you really REALLY like her, then you should keep trying...
Check out what she likes and hates.
Try not to be too pursuant or pushy, that will scare her away and she'll most likely want nothing to do with you.
If it doesnt work out after all, well at least you tried...
2007-03-11 14:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only say what makes sense to me. I think she has baggage. Taking things slow, and avoiding the "I like you" question, she might not be feeling ready for a relationship/be somewhat stuck in the past and afraid to put herself out there again. If she's just trying to adjust/get comfortable, spend time with her while keeping it light/developing the friendship aspect (=you are someone she can trust, who will be supportive to her feelings). Just see if she wants to go on another date and take things slow. Ask her about her dating history, etc.
2007-03-11 14:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by joie_du_cor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her some space. and i guess you shouldnt keep asking her that if she avoids the question. and if she avoids the question then honestly she may not like you. however, it may not be that she doesnt like you. maybe she is going through something kinda rough right now. maybe she still has feelings for someone else and cant seem to get over them. therefore maybe she doesnt feel like she should even begin to get close to someone else at the time. like i said, just give her some time. maybe tell her to let you know when she is free and stop bugging her about it right now because apparently there is some reason she is stalling. but its her business whatever it is so dont expect her to tell you, but if she does thats good.
2007-03-11 14:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by <3_*~kiLLeR_kiSsEr~*_<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm interesting. I can understand why she wants to take things slow. But it sounds like she's probably been into a previous relationship or something and really doesn't want to get involved quite yet until she knows that you're pure coolness. If i had to take a wild guess thats what it'd be.
2007-03-11 14:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might just be confused. dont push her though. talk about her interest and have her get to know u better as a good guy, but be urself. she probably is nervous around u since u just met her. u need to get to know eachother more if u want the relationship last. dont put her on the spot though by asking her if she likes u she will get nervous if u do. GOOD LUCK i hoped i helped.
2007-03-11 14:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by Autumnkins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think somethings up with that and she may have someone else in mind to see but don't want to hurt you. I think if someone likes you they find time to set a date with you no matter what. I think avoiding the question tells you to move on and if she makes any moves towards you then proceed otherwise call it her loss.
2007-03-11 14:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you guys like eachother, but you two aren't the same in terms of personality and interests. I would suggest that you find another girl that is more outgoing because when two people are in love, they need to be able to talk with one another without avoiding the subject. Don't worry, there are many other girls willing to date you! You just got to find them! Or they may find you...
2007-03-11 14:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep in contact with her, maybe her slow is alot slower than yours. Don't keep asking her if she likes you, that gives off the sense that you have low self esteem and are desperate to know if she likes you. Just be cool and have fun, if nothing comes out of it you have made a good friend.
2007-03-11 14:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people feel unsure about things and I guess this is a time when she feels unsure. There's never a definite answer in love. Most likely take things slowly but bold movements will show her that you really love her.
2007-03-11 14:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by flowerlily629 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe she wants to take it slow because she got hurt in a past relationship. If you really like her then you would respect her decision. Try to understand her and she'll appreciate it. Don't push it and then she'll open up.
2007-03-11 14:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋