Im 12 and yell at my mum and sister is this normall?

Question

i get really moody and angry and i say im sorry and they forgive me nut i still feel really bad please help and if this helps i dont have my period.

Answer 1

They forgive you because they love you. You are going through a very fragile time in your life...your hormones are all over the place....you are nearing your teenage years, you are slowly becoming an adult.....dont be so hard on yourself.

I can only give my own personal opinion here, but being a mother of three grown children now....I will tell you that if you lived in my family, yelling at me would be considered normal....especially at your age.....I have a 19 year old son who is as moody as they come...he gets angry and yells at me....he loves me and I love him, and I guess its a normal part of growing up.....take care.

Answer 2

It's a normal part of growing up and going through puberty for a lot of young women. But it doesn't mean that yelling is the best way to handle the situation. You might want to find a good book on the changes you're experiencing as your body prepares itself to become an adult. I highly recommend "Girlology: A Girl's Guide to Stuff that Matters" for it's chapters on relationships between parents and age mates. But you might want your mom to look through it with you before you buy it because it is also very straightforward in the puberty and sex chapters.

Answer 3

I think it is normal to a certain extent. 12 is a difficult age, and it is sometimes hard to manage your emotions. Maybe try to find an outlet for your anger... When I was 12-17, I kept a journal. I would write down all my frustrations with my family, friends, school, etc. and once I had it all out on paper, I actually felt better, and I wouldn't be as apt to yell at everyone.

At least you realize that yelling at your loved ones isn't healthy... I applaud you for asking for help! *hug*

Answer 4

It's normal at this age. And even though you don't have your period, your body is changing and all kinds of different hormones are getting released and it can make you difficult to live with and be around, even if you don't mean to be that way. Just try to take a deep breath and think before you say the hurtful things and yell. Even though they probably understand a little why you are acting this way, it still hurts, especially your Mom. Good Luck.

Answer 5

You should make a conscious effort to not yell and to be civilized. Think before yelling. You will find as you grow older that that behavior is unacceptable and makes life very unpleasant. I have worked for a company where everyone yelled at everyone else, and I was actually told to join in. They were shocked to hear me tell them that I have made a conscious choice in life to treat others with respect and that yelling is something I refuse to do. There are other ways to cope with moods and anger, the best one being exercise. Instead of yelling, run around the block, and you'll be calm before you damage your relationships and life in general is a lot more pleasant..

Answer 6

Shame on you for yelling at your mother! You need to stop that now! No one is going to put up with that behavior when you grow up and be a good sister! Have some values, morals and integrity. Go to the library and read some books on how to be a decnet girl! And go to confession ask for forgiveness. I am sure your a delightful girl but you really need to focus on being a good daughter and sister.

Answer 7

Well,
Let me tell you something young lady. You are growing up and these are growing pains.

When I was 12, I did the same thing and as I got older I got back alot of what I dished out.

See you know it is wrong and it is not hard to stop. There is something that you may be lacking. Find out why you are so angry. Go to a counselor to get out your feelings. Or get involved in sports or other forms of entertainment to ease your mind.

Love your mom and sister, if they were not here, what would you do?

Answer 8

of course that's normal. your hormones are causing you to become moody. all teenagers and most tweens are moody almost all the time. and can't help it. and you said you feel bad after. so it's not like you're doing it to be mean.

Answer 9

say sorry in a sincere way. if you say it in an angry way, of course the problem will just get worse. and try not to talk bad when someone said something you don't really like. if you stay quiet, they get bored of talking to you and will less likely to say unnecessary stuff. also, obey your parents! it will make things much smoother around the house and your parents and siblings will have a more kind attitude toward you. trust me, it works.
to prove my advice, my dad bought me a console for not arguing to any of my siblings or my parents. sometimes my mom also gives me money for no reason, seriously.

Answer 10

No that's not normal or healthy and you should no better. You won't get anywhere in life if you have such poor relationships with your Mom and sister. Now go do the dish's and help your mom clean the house and read your sister a book.