I'm a girl who is almost 19 and last night i was at a bar and i was talking to a women and i sat with her and after a little while i was drunk then after a short while i felt something towards her it was kinda like a crush i had on a guy long while back and I imaged never seeing her again(even though i knew i could cause she lives near by) and it hert my feelings but now today all thats changed so it must of been the alcohol that make me view her like i did right?
P.s the legal age for going to the bar is 18 here.
2007-03-11 13:31:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow where the hell do u live i wanna move there!!!!!! lol no but i think it was just the alcohol ya know its ok to have feelings toward anyone but if u woke up the next day and they changed then the alcohol could have been the only reason but good luck with that and take advantage of going into the bar at 18 california sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-19 11:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say that everyone is bisexual but each person makes a choice. There are women who have affairs with other women but they don't consider themselves lesbians. They say that it was just an extention of their friendship and nothing more. It could be that the alcohol gave you a buzz and you caught a vibe off your friend. Maybe it's not that you wanted sex but you just wanted to feel bonded with another woman and you only feel that when you drink. Hope that helps.
2007-03-19 19:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you felt she was compassionate and could be a friend. Alcohol does some weird stuff too. So most likely it wasn't your true feelings. But, I could be wrong. See her again when you have not had any alcohol. Then see what you feel towards her.
2007-03-19 20:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we drink are hormones just go crazy
. i learned at a young age that all kids are homo to begin with. then as they mature they become like bi-sexual. and the way you end up - straight, Les, or bi, is up to you you. you have to ask your self things like do i want kids and a husband or do i want to be with women occasionally [i don't advise this, creates to many indirect problems].basically in your case here is that booze allows your animal instincts to come to the forefront. if you'd been with a guy you would have probably felt a strong attraction to him. when you masturbate do you fantasize about men or women. the answer to this may help you figure out your sexual identity.
just my opinion
2007-03-19 17:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by msjamie2581 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely the booze. i learned at a young age that all kids are homo to begin with. then as they mature they become like bi-sexual. and the way you end up - straight, les, or bi, is up to you you. you have to ask your self things like do i want kids and a husband or do i want to be with women occasionally [i don't advise this, creates to many indirect problems].basically in your case here is that booze allows your animal instincts to come to the forefront. if you'd been with a guy you would have probably felt a strong attraction to him. when you masturbate do you fantasize about men or women. the answer to this may help you figure out your sexual identity.
just my opinion.
2007-03-11 20:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could have just thought of her as a friend who you could confide in, nothing sexual at all. Alcohol makes you feel things that you don't want to feel or lets you not feel what you don't want to feel.
2007-03-19 18:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lost in a Relationship 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you thiught she could be a great friend to have, and the thought of hot having her as a friend scared you. You could have some type of separation anxiety.
2007-03-11 20:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by kdd_angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was just the alcohol playing with your emotions. Don't worry about it. That happens to both guys and girls sometimes.... they just don't want to put it out there. Alcohol often gives the aura of " being safe ", "being secure", and those are both qualities that create a " bond". You had that.... temporairily, thanks to the alcohol.
2007-03-11 20:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hell yeah you were drunk unless you like women and you didn't know that yet.
2007-03-19 20:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably was the alcohol
2007-03-19 19:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋