what do i do my ex bf comes over my house to see my mom and i dont know why he comes over here and just sits and talks about me the whole time why is that and then he always calls me crazy but he always wants to know what im doing and who im doing he also has a drinking problem we have been broken up for 3 years now why is this happening to me!
2007-03-11 13:29:19 · 12 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesnt want my mom either!@
2007-03-11 13:34:20 · update #1
It sounds like he uses your mom as an excuse to keep tabs on you. :)
2007-03-11 13:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that was the longest runon sentence ever. Anyhow, talk to your mom and tell her you don't feel comfortable with this drunk coming around all the time. It is her house though (I'm assuming) so it is ultimately her decision who comes or goes. You might to just move out if it is really bothering you.
2007-03-11 13:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a controlling freak----you need to have a SERIOUS conversation with him--forbid anymore visits to your house. He is infringing on your space, and your privacy. You need to be firm and speak slow and clearly to him about this. Then your family needs to know how you feel. He is clinging to a lost hope--this is odd behavior and must be dealt with.Good luck.
2007-03-11 13:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He uses your mom. Your mom should know better and not talk to this dude. Drinking prolems and dating always suck. Bigtime!
2007-03-11 13:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, he is still interested in you. If you do not feel comfortable having him around your house, you should tell your mom how you feel.
2007-03-11 13:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's stalking you and you need to call the cops on him. and shame on mom for letting him come over!
2007-03-11 13:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't let you go. The only way you're going to get him to leave you alone for good is to tell him straight up: "I want you out of her." Good luck
2007-03-11 13:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by kungfumasterzod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom that you don't feel comfortable with him comming over to the house.
2007-03-11 13:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like stalking behavoir, ask your mom to ask him not to come cause it makes you uncomfortable.
2007-03-11 13:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by Mah10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okaaaaaaay! I'd be asking my mother to stop having him round....you guys have been split a long time now....or do you think he could be interested in your mum? sorry hun. but you never know do you?
2007-03-11 13:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋