me to go and take care of her ill sister in Belgium. I love this girl but it's taking me time to actually figure out why she wants to leave me. And she's still in touch with the ex(as he owes her £2000) now and then she goes to his place to pick up the money as he claims that he hasn't got time to put the money in her bank and it's killing my trust for her and I am wondering if I should let her go to her sister since I love her. Any help would be appreciated.
2007-03-11 13:15:43 · 11 answers · asked by nesbert m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should let her go for good. She is not over her ex, obviously.
2007-03-11 13:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad I'm not in your position, this sounds like a rough one. I hate to say it but once a cheater always a cheater. Some women are just like that. If she was with you all the way she wouldn't still be in contact so much with her ex, even if he owes her money. It's going to be one of the hardest things you've ever had to do but I think you better let her go for good. Either do it now or it'll happen eventually, even if you don't want it to.
2007-03-11 20:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by kungfumasterzod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the hardest things I have had to learn to do is to let someone I love go, and it has never got any easier. I have had to learn this lesson over and over, and what can I do about it. All you can do is let them go. What are you going to do? Are you going to tie her to the bedpost and leave her there? If she is going to leave then she is going to leave. I suggest you get a box of kleenex and just cry a little.
2007-03-11 20:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by ellasdaughter2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once dated this guy that left his girlfriend to be with me, in the end he did the same thing to me with another girl. Situations like this never seem to work out the way WE want them to. You cant contol her decisions and getting stressed out only hurts YOU. So sit back REMAIN observant and see how things unfold. (wish I could help more) GOOD LUCK
2007-03-11 20:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is going to her sisters to take care of her, there is nothing you can do to stop her, that is her family. so the answer is let her go. because she will do it anyways.and without trust in a relationship you don't have a relationship. good luck.
2007-03-11 20:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can 't you go where she is? Man you have to take care of your business!
Take a flight and see what happened!
2007-03-11 20:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, she told you she was picking up money from an ex. And you believed that one?
2007-03-11 20:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the tramp, she cheated before didn't she? With you, and some leopards spots never change
2007-03-11 20:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by ma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her, let her go. her ex is trying to get in her pants. it's pretty lame to say he doesn't have time to make a bank deposit.....
2007-03-11 20:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she would like you to come along. if she says no then you can react
2007-03-11 20:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by nadi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋