I'm 19. I have a premature baby who's going to be in the hospital for months. I live in tx, His dad lives in Missouri but we broke up and when he came down for a couple of days he asked me If I wanted to work it out? I said yes but I regret it now. I like him a lot. My family hates him and even the nurses in the NICU say he is immature people advise me not to be with him. But you like who you like and you can't help it. Anyways I found out he went to a concert w/ another girl and a guy and when I found out I felt more stupid for wanting to work it out so yea were single but I know if i missed with someone else he would be mad. So, what do I do? He calls me like every other day but I feel like I'm doing this on my own I asked him to move to Tx before and he didn't give me an answer so I'm not even going to ask him. I just want to be with and have our baby. But then again I want to be here and get my education and move on I mean seriously I dont wanna wait he could be doing anything/one.
2007-03-11 13:12:12 · 4 answers · asked by Stephanie R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to do what is best for your baby. I'm sorry the father is so immature, but you can't let him hold you back. You need to pursue your education so you can provide your baby with a future. Its hard, but its wroth. He's just gonna hurt you over and over again. And now its not just gonna be you he's hurting. Leave him, move on, and don't look back. Ask your family to help you. You may have to do this on your own, but you don't have to do it without support. Rely on your family and yourself. You will be fine. Best wishes and take care.
2007-03-11 13:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by raintigar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by u waitin 4 him 2b a man is a waste of ur time u have 2 put u n ur baby 1st n is not fair 4u 2 wait for him n is not fair that is ok that u can be single n he can act like a teenager n date another girl while u put ur life in hold for him so this man cant act like a man he jus wants 2 put the respnaibilty in ur hands while he kicks bck n chills nah mama u know what 2 do u a grown women with a baby who needs u like by u goin2 school 2 educate urself is not jus good 2 u but 4 ur baby n there r other guys who will treat u like a women thats a real man belive that
2007-03-11 13:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope everything works out with your baby and he will be ok a have a quick recovery. If you don't want to be with him you need to tell him that.if you don't have feelings for him anymore then you don't want to be with him.just focus on your baby and his health..
2007-03-11 13:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should try and work it out with him only if u think there is somthing there
2007-03-11 13:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by danielle! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋