my boyfriends ex has been talking to him alot lately. he said he was gonna stop, but he hasnt. is something up

Question

i dont know whether or not hes cheating on me, and he gets mad when i mention it.
the girl lives far away, but they talk a alot.

Answer 1

His getting mad is strange, unless you bug him all the time and he sees it as just another attack on him.

Try to talk to him about it gently, perhaps tell him how you feel when he talks to her, don't be accusing, just let him know how it makes you feel, then you can decide from that what to do next.

If he knows that it is hurting you and continues to do it, then perhaps you should consider letting him go. I don't mean he has to do everything you say, but he should at least address it to ease your concern.

Answer 2

This is a classic scenario so don't get too worried yet. Your boyfriends relationship could be perfectly normal, as long as there are boundaries of course. He needs to respect your feelings but know what amount of contact with his ex is appropriate. If you two are serious then set him down and talk about the situation ONCE. The last thing you want to do is to push your boyfriend into getting any closer to his ex by constantly bugging him about it. Plus if you just talk about it once and explain your feelings you'll show him you have complete trust in him which will strengthen your relationship even more!! Good luck!

Answer 3

OK first off don't yell at him when your asking, and second she is an ex for a reason. If he gets mad when you ask him nicely he is cheating but if your yelling at him every guy is going to get mad. Be carefully don't jump to conclusions.

Answer 4

Well sometimes when you break-up you can still be friend's. So don't be paranoid! It's most likely innocent, and he's with you no matter what. My current BF talks to his ex's but he's with me and sometimes it bothers yeah but you know what I know my man loves me and will always be with me. So chill out i'm sure it's harmless.

Answer 5

Leave it alone. Would you want to be told that you can't talk to your ex's? Nothing's up until something up. At that point, deal with it. Until then, chill.

You need to sit down and talk with him about it. He needs to tell you what he's up to since it is and ex and he needs to know why it's bothering you and you need to know what he wants to do about it.

Take it from there!

Answer 6

i'll be perfectly honest when i was younger i was a dirt bag but ive changed since then and everytime one of my old gf would let me talk to an ex or would put up with it i cheated on them and thats only me he might be diff. but i would be careful

Answer 7

Explain to your boyfriend how this makes you feel, and ask him to put himself in your shoes. If he doesn't listen and continues to talk to her consider what impact that has on your relationship

Answer 8

dw if she lives far away they can hardly do ne thin...in the end it all cums down to trust do u trust him??? if yes then stop stressin..

i dont get cut when mi bf tlks to all his ex's coz im the same im m8s with all mine and i wouldnt hav it ne otha way..in mi mind its onli friendships..i dont think of them in "that way" ne more and i trust thats how he feels too...=)

Answer 9

in case you nevertheless desire the courting and desire to win out over this different woman: provide up scuffling with with him. provide up asking him questions. do no longer point out this different woman in any respect. initiate being style and loving and romantic. purchase your gown for promenade. do no longer act desperate or needy or demanding relating to the courting. hopefully, he gets back to his senses and each thing gets back to primary.

Answer 10

dont worry about it unless he says hes going some where for the weekend