My Bf is really cute. But ever since i started going out with him he's been flirting alot with other girls. And my friends say they caught him cheating. Should believe them or ignore them? what would do PLEASE HELP!!!!!
2007-03-11 13:05:00 · 13 answers · asked by grismar d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well u shudnt always believe in wat people say becuz they could just be hatin on you....but since they're ur friends, take into consideration wat they say, try proving that he is cheating then take action
2007-03-11 13:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by mKsTpN0y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back and decide for yourself, if he's cheating on you then he doesn't feel for you in the same way you do for him. Maybe you should just be friends, with time matters might improve and then you'll be ready to take another step. You should go with your real friends over a guy though because they are there to support you and at this age how you feel about some guy is not always real.
Hope it works out
2007-03-11 13:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how old you are, but if your younger than 20 please believe your better than him and yes leave him.
If your older than 20 I would ask him up front if he has done these things in FRONT of your friends that have 'caught' him and explain to him that you flirting with other girls hurts your feelings.
You are worth a guys full attention. If he is not giving it to you, its not you, its him!
Please be strong and know your better than some guy that might just play you for what he wants out of you. There are so many 'cute' guys out there, and some of them will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
So, don't be one of those girls that put up with his sh*t only because you want his attention on your, and only you. Know you deserve better and fish the seas if need be.
2007-03-11 13:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kiki D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't bother with what ya friends think. You should ask him yourself. Just because he flirts does not mean that he is cheating. My best friend Flirts a lot with other guys but that doesn't mean that she messes wit them. Cause she has wayy too much class.
2007-03-11 14:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by tRaCi3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure that your friends are telling the truth?
are you sure he is flirting (and doing other things besides flirting too?)
if you are not sure, then you need to go investigate. Go find out what he is up to, spy on him.
If he is up to no good then dump his as because you got the undoubtable proof! if not then you will feel bad for spying but hey at least you don't have doubts hanging over your head.
2007-03-11 13:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by That Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your girlfriends would never lie to you. At least, mine wouldn't, because they're true girlfriends.
They tell you the truth because it's true, and they don't want to see you get hurt later on.
If he's flirting a lot, and his behaviour matches up to what they say they've seen him do, then he's probably cheating.
2007-03-11 13:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by Fabulously Broke in the City 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you only like him because he's cute? That's not the only reason why you should date someone. If ALL your friends say he is cheating then I'd say he most likely is and you should never want to be with someone like that. Dump his ***
2007-03-11 13:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by starla_o0 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your friends are like family then you should just dump his *** to the curb and find someone who is into you. Time is way to short to waste it on people who don't respect you.
2007-03-11 13:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by tehsuxs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends can be rite. but they mite have seen him w/ a girl and they misunderstood the situation. listen to your heart. ask your self:
duz he like me? if he duz he wouldnt cheat
would he cheat?
do you like him?
how duz he treat you?
how much time duz he spend w/ u?
duz he have a lot of friends that are girls?
i hope every thing works out!!!!!!!! good luck!
2007-03-11 13:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by ms.bootyfull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should believ yr friends but also keep an eye on him
2007-03-11 13:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by danielle! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in doubt, check it out! Yes spy! LOL
2007-03-11 13:07:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋