My friend says she wants to comit suicide...?

Question

is she telling the truth or is she messing around with me

Answer 1

any sort of depression can be tide over by faith in GOD and sincere prayer.

Your prayer is from your heart. Further You must have to understood the fact that God is present in our heart. This can be realised in meditation. Further we are the creation of our own destiny. As per Hindu sacred religion, we carry all good and bad deeds life after life. There is no end unless we pray for unification of self with the divineliness.
Hence there is always a possible way to complete mergence with God in this life by a simple and wonderful meditation

Answer 2

Ask her. Ask her why she wants to do it, what's driven her to become this upset with life? Try to help her through what ever it is. And if it turns out that she was messing about, ask her why she would play with your feelings like that. It's not on to say something so big and for it not to have any truth, it gets people worried and hurt.

Answer 3

A man goes to a shop, picks up a beautiful cup and says "my god this cup is so beautiful" and suddenly the cup starts talking to the man. The cup starts saying "O man, I am beautiful right now, but what was the state of my being before the pot-maker made me a beautiful pot?

Before I was sheer mud and the pot-maker pulled me out of the mud from the mother earth and I felt why that pot-maker is so cruel, he has separated me from mother earth. I felt a tremendous pain. And the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me and churned me, when I was churned I felt so giddy, so painful, so stressful, I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me into a oven and heated me up, I felt completely burnt. There was tremendous pain and I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait."

Then he poured hot paint on me and I felt the fume and the pain, I again asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then again he put me into an oven and heated it to make me more strong, I felt life is so painful hence pleaded the pot-maker and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." And after that the pot-maker took me to the mirror and said, "Now look at yourself". And surprisingly I found myself so beautiful.

When god gives us lot of trouble, it appears god is very cruel but we need patience and we have to wait. When bad things happen to good people, they become better and not bitter.

So all difficulties are part of a cosmic design to make us really beautiful. We need patience, we need understanding, we need the commitment to go through in a very calm and wise way. So all difficulties are not to tumble us but to humble us.

With this understanding, let us not be against difficulty. Understand difficulty is a part of a purifying process. A purifying process at present which we cannot understand and hence we need faith and we need trust.

Let us understand how to handle stress with this background. You can be affected by stress from two angles. There is an internal stress and there is an external stress. Nobody can avoid stress; one has to only manage stress. Managing stress can be internal and also external.

The internal stress is; your thoughts can create stress, your values can create stress, and your beliefs can create stress, meaning thereby your stress is coming from your mind more from the outer world. Many people suffer not from heart attack - they suffer from thought-attack.

For example, when somebody says you are an idiot, we get so hurt, we get so victimised. My boss has called me an idiot and I am feeling tremendous pain. Now where does this stress come from? If my boss has called me an idiot, I have to ask myself "am I an idiot"?

If I am an idiot nothing to be upset about; and if I am not an idiot, then also nothing to be upset about! It is the perception of the boss. But why do we suffer from that stress? I suffer not because my boss has called me an idiot but because of the thought-attack.

I may say the boss has called me an idiot; therefore I am suffering? It is true that the words are unpleasant. But what hurts is the interpretation of the unpleasant word. The thought in me interprets. That is pain and therefore it becomes pain. Much of our stress is our mind interpreting it as pain. So we suffer from thought-attack more than heart attack.

Answer 4

Your friend may be emotionally troubled. This may be a serious matter. Do probe further and see whether she is serious. If she is thinking of suicide, do seek help immediately from a mental health professional. Seek a psychiatrist or hospital if she has suicidal tendencies and talks about suicide repeatedly.
Please be sensitive and understanding towards her.

Jesus bless you.

Answer 5

you'll be able to desire to interfere, this may be calling 911, contacting counselors in school, contacting your acquaintances kin. There are emergency numbers in the front of the telephone e book and there is very just about continually a disaster line for in basic terms this sort of difficulty. continually be there once you're mandatory, hear do no longer decide and if he can not get the help for himself you'll be able to desire to do it for him.

Answer 6

Your friend doesn't really want to die -- she just wants the pain to stop. She is asking desperately for help. Please insist that she seek a clinical psychologist ASAP. Help her to get the help she needs. I have been there.

Answer 7

Give her these resources: http://www.suicidepreventionhotline.org/ & http://teenline.org/ & 1800 lifenet & 1800 2738255

Answer 8

tell a person who maybe able to help.