i had this abortion because of finaical situations and because my man and me were not ready yet.when i got pregnant i didnt expect it to happen.it was on the pill.i was on the pill for a year too.i am now on the patch.anyways i felt weriod being pregnant. i never was pregnant before.i was shocked that i was.i didnt believe it.the doctors pregnancy test sure didnt lie.i sure wish i could have went through with the pregnancy.i am 25 years old.i have time i hope.i hope when i try again i get pregnant.i also hope i hold it in my womb.
2007-03-11 12:59:44 · 11 answers · asked by teetazsteeler 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Not weird at all. Very healthy. And don't stress about future pregnancies. You will be fine.
You made the right decision for the situation you were in.
And don't let judgmental fools bother you. Some people are just so caught up in themselves and think that anyone who doesn't agree with them are 'sinners' going to 'hell'.
2007-03-11 13:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Hi know how you feel. I had a abortion 4 months ago. I had my reasons for doing it. I also was on contraception and with my boyfriend for longer than a year when it happend. I took the pills, as I was still in a very early stage. The doctor could not see anything on the ultrasound. For me it was difficult to make the decission but, afterwards I don't really think about it. But that does not make a bad person. I love kids and I'll love to have kids of my own one day. I wonder how I will feel if I one day when I have kids.
2007-03-12 15:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I want to speak to you, woman to woman. I read a post on hear telling you that you have just killed an innocent child...that was a wrong thing to say to you. Remember that NO ONE has walked in your shoes or knows what you have gone through, or what lead you to make the decision you have. Your decision was based on your life and you are fit to make any choice that concerns your body.
I knew a woman who was raped...she made the decision to have an abortion. People labeled her a "baby killer" without knowing anything about her life or her situation. You are still a worthy human being. Don't let anyone let you believe differently.
There is so much judgement by others in this world. We need to accept everyone AS THEY ARE, not who we wish they would be. Don't be discouraged...keep your head up and don't worry about forgetting you were pregnant. We cannot live our entire lives in the past or spend eternity filled with guilt and second guessing. What's done is done...and tomorrow is a new day.
Keep your head up, sweetie. I wish you enough peace and happiness to last a lifetime.
2007-03-11 22:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I felt really bad after I had one. I was younger (14) and my mother made me get one. I really didn't know I had a choice. If I could go back in time I would've said hell no!! But I felt really bad. I remember every single moment starting from when I was outside the clinic and the pro-choice people were yelling at me, until I was back home in my bed. The taste of garlic, the deep breathes, then waking up with that empty feeling. It was crazy, took me a while to get over. But now I'm trying to have another baby and when I get it, I'll get twice my love, my time, etc.
It takes some time getting over. It will always be in the back of your mind, but believe me you will get over it.
People like Ria just ignore the ignorance.
2007-03-11 20:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy C 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This is not strange to feel this way. You just made a huge choice. You will think about this for a while...but always remember to try and talk to people who will support you. When you are ready (really ready) to have a baby all will be fine. Don't blame yourself I have seen many women have babies and have not made very good mothers. If you feel your choice was right the so be it.
good luck to you in the future
2007-03-11 21:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
its common. I have a friend who used protection and got pregnant anyway- she found out because she miscarried. she didn't know she was pregnant and it still hasn't really sunk in. she did cry, but she cried more because of how messed up it was that she was pregnant and didn't know it and that it didn't feel real
2007-03-12 21:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to you I had one a few years ago and it still bothers me I still feel guilty and I think I always will
2007-03-11 20:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by cuetee220 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being financially stable and not being ready is not a reason to kill your little baby that was buried inside your womb thinking he/she was protected from the outside...have u heard of getting a job making yourself stable? have u heard of HAVING to be ready because it shouldnt of been your choice to abort. Babies are not as expensive as people make them out to be..1 child is not a burden but a blessing and u just crushed that because u were selfish...
2007-03-11 20:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
No, it is not wierd. You are moving on with your life, developing it so that, someday, you will be able to care for a baby as it deserves to be cared for.
Good luck.
Edit: Do not let that ignorant girl beneath me debase you. Only you can judge yourself, okay?
2007-03-11 20:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by TobitOfWisdom 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
wats the question again?
2007-03-11 20:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋