A former male friend of mine at work is kinda avoiding me. We were close friends b4, but we had joked about hooking up until I got upset with him since I ended up wanting to and felt like he was disrespecting me. I ended up calling him a dog since he has a gf overseas and was talking to me about doing it. Anyway I ended up writing a letter to him apologizing to him and he told me I was too weird to be his friend since I gave him mixed signals. He emailed me telling me I needed therapy and that I should get a bf and some friends. When he emailed me this, I was hurt and had been ignoring him for a month, but I could tell he would look at me and try to make me jealous by talking to other girls. I think he realized he had hurt my feelings since I could tell he looked guilty sometimes. I went up to him and said hi and he said hi. He looked at me like he wanted to talk. We have been just saying hi for the past couple of days and people at work are being too nice
2007-03-11 12:47:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl take it form me, office romances are really hard. Not sure of his actions but maybe you have feelings for him that you are not willing to come to grips with.
2007-03-11 12:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is acting like this because you were giving him mixed signals(his words) first flirting with him and then offending him. His ego was hurt and he has to prove what a great guy he is by flirting with other girls. Just be nice with him and see what happens and don't give anymore mixed signals.Guys hate that.
2007-03-11 20:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by prettywoman_eks 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋