"Just wanting to know.Because I lost a lifetime friend.We became friends before his college years,I was still a very young and nieve girl.(13.)He was there for me through boyfriends,and then with a marriage that didnt work out.(My second one did,and Is).He was the one to talk to me.He was the one that listened ,and he was the one to write poetry with.But I wasnt "IN LOVE WITH HIM."But he was ,and will allways ,"Be,MY BEST FRIEND!" Any HELP!!!!!!
2007-03-11 12:37:38 · 11 answers · asked by khamm12001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe this can help..........
PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you
know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When
someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have
expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide
you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or
spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for
the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part
or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring
the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled,
their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is
time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come
to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you
laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give
you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a
season .
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build
upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept
the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind
but friendship is clairvoyant.
2007-03-11 12:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by jeanenne h 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you lose him like he passed away, or the two of you just lost touch for a while? If it is the latter, look him up and call him, he will be very glad you did! I have had the same best friend for 15 years, and through those years we have lost touch for 6 months to a year intervals, but then one day out of the blue one of us would call the other just to say hi. And we would pick up just where we left off the last time we spoke. I truly believe mine is the best, but I think that everyone that answers this question that has a best friend will say the same!
2007-03-11 12:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep my best friend and i have been for 28 years we both moved into the same street at the same time went to the same schools been there for each other when relationships went bad was there when she had her kids she got married 2 years ago and the best thing was seeing the smile on her face in the wedding photos i hope i have a smile like that on my wedding day
2007-03-11 12:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by nicola s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, supply me in basic terms acquaintances. i'm in no way specific approximately acquaintances being real or fake. i think a chum is in basic terms that - a chum. a chum won't be able to be a chum if the chum is fake.quite the chum may well be an previous chum or a sparkling chum. approximately acquaintances, Anton Chekhov reminds us that a woman may well be a guy's chum in basic terms in levels: first an acquaintance, next a mistress, and in basic terms then a chum. So, which guy would not love women folk acquaintances?
2017-01-04 08:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find a way to get back in contact with him. especially if you were such good friends... friends like that are sadly to few. I am fortunate that my best friend is there all the time... and listens and understands me.... we all need someone like that in our lives...
2007-03-11 12:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by juli_jugz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I can.....
My best friend and I have been friends for 8 years, and 2 of those years I lived a state away from her, and we still kept in touch. We never fight, and both of us would die for one another. I for one am loyal to any of my friends, I would die for any one of my friends.
2007-03-11 12:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something he will have to get over. Give him time. Things will work out.
2007-03-11 12:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he die?If not talk to him,or write him.Do try to get him back.
2007-03-11 12:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, my best friend stabbed me in the back. Sorry, I couldn't help,but thanks for the points.. Good Luck!
2007-03-11 12:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by gangsta ma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only true friend that i have is my girlfriend
2007-03-11 12:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by SwordDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋