what is he thinking? help!?

Question

my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 3 months now. we have both said i love you to each other and (at least i kno i do) meant it. its the kiss thats the problem. its not that he's a bad kisser, because i know hes not. its more of a situation where he has lost his passion. (i mean nothing of sex, we are both virgins and want to remain that way until marriage.) he also never makes the first move, but waits for me to say/do something first. is this him just being nervous? has he lost his feeling for me?

he also never calls or IMs me first. this drives me crazy because im constantly asking myself why. to be brutally honest, he has never called me first. i find myself constantly wondering if he has different feelings for me...im sure im just being paranoid, but if a guy cares, wouldnt he take initiative?

i know he does care, he was soo sweet on valentines day, and he recently met my parents. (this was a huge ordeal because my parents are overly strict.) he was incredibly polite and i must say he made a great first impression. my mum and dad both approve...

i just dont know what he's thinking...

Answer 1

first of all, congratulations on remaining a virgin.
second of all (and you'll learn this as you go through life) communication is the key to a good relationship. you've got to tell him when stuff bothers you, cuz he'll never figure it out. guys are clueless that way. tell him you wish he'd call you before you call him, or that he'd kiss you first. otherwise, if you wait around for him to figure out you're unhappy about something, you'll be waiting a long time.

Answer 2

I'll bet he thinks your crazy. I sure think your crazy after reading that paragraph. 'I love you' after three months? Way too soon. You want him to call/tex every second of the day...way to obsessed.

And a guy that want s to wait for marriage before sex......lol (OK, guess there could be a couple).