i've liked this guy for around 3 years. I talked to him a whole bunch the first year, a little the second, and now when i really really like him...i dont talk to him at all....about 4 mouths ago one of my close friends accidently told somebody i liked him ever since then i cant look at him and i cant talk to him. I was paranoid about him finding out and know that my same close friend told him on Myspace. Its not that bad him knowing....he doesnt make a big deal about it...but he REALLY REALLY likes this other girl who is kind of my friend my not my close close friend and i soon think there going to go out and i'm kind of senstive and dont know how i'll take it....meanwhile one of my other friends is being a brat and keeps liking the same guys me and my other friend (same one that told the guy i like) and is making me mad cause she keep telling me he was bi just so i would get over him so she could have him. What should i do?...and sorry its so long..but thank you for your help
2007-03-11 12:33:04 · 3 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He isnt bi....one of my friends told me he was so i would get over him....but he's not.....
2007-03-11 12:39:44 · update #1
thank you for the answer mark....but he already knows i like him...one of my best friends told him on myspace....
2007-03-11 12:47:27 · update #2
I'm kinda in the same boat that you are in. I have liked this girl for at least 3 years. Her and I use to be really good friends, but the last time i talked to her was around Christmas. I've seen her but i haven't really talked to her. I guess I don't have enough balls to tell her.
To answer your question.
You could tell him straight up......or......You could get to be friends with him and get to know him better, but that would be time consuming.
No matter what you do please keep in mind that there are plenty of other guys. So don't keep your mind on a certain boy. Sorry, I hope this helps a little.
Good Luck,
90_48
2007-03-11 16:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by 90☮48 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You first need to find out if he is going out with the other girl. Talk to your friends or his, and see if he is dating her. Don't trust things posted on a website, ask people directly in person or on the phone. Then ask him if he is dating anyone, that should be easier than telling him yourself you like him since you seem to have a hard time doing that on your own.
Since you say he really likes this other girl, as much as it hurts I bet you will end up having to accept that for now...but find out as boys can change their minds quickly as teenagers.
The best way to get over a boy you like a lot and can't have is to find another yourself and hang out...you may find another boy ends up being someone you really like more in the end.
2007-03-11 12:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by mark63049 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is telling you he is bi to get rid of you move on he is not initerested,, or tell him straight up and let the chip fall where they may
2007-03-11 12:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by AKAPAC69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋