To be mad at ur parents because they screw up ur life because of the mistakes they made in the past???????
2007-03-11 12:27:11 · 8 answers · asked by mima 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can be mad at your parents as much as you want. It is normal, everyone gets mad at there parents once in a while. But to say that they screwed your life up, is not a good thing. People make mistakes all the time. I use to hate my parents b/c of what they put me though fighting all the time, and the uncontrobaly alcohol usage. I wish i didn't hate them. well really it was only my dad. Cause of alcohol and drugs, i hated him. But in the end you don't know what is going to happen. I didn't and for a month i refused to speak to my dad..........I the end he couldn't take not speaking to the family and.......he comitied suscide. I'm not saying your parents are going to kill themself. But stay close to them cause you never know what will happen. I hope this helps you out.
2007-03-11 12:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Court 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem and i'm still a little mad at my mom for what she did in the past and well that was 6 years ago. Sometimes I start to think about and I get upset and that but it's ok I tell my mom about how I feel and we talk about it for awhile and it makes me feel alot better. Maybe you should talk with ur parents and tell them how you feel and everything. It'll make you feel better.
2007-03-11 13:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Caitlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal. Just remember though, parents are human beings too, we expect them to make such wise choices - but parents make mistakes just like everyone else. I hope you find it within yourself to forgive them and put the past behind you. Your anger won't be able to change anything. It is far better to just look ahead and plan as happy a future for yourself as you can. Peace.
2007-03-11 12:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can totally relate. Parents make mistakes and then we (their kids) have to suffer the freaken consequences. I hate but it's life...And it's ok to be madd at your parents, but just don't keep a grudge for too long. Grudges are bad =(
2007-03-11 13:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lola526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course! But they're just trying to do what is right for you!!! They don't want you to make the same mistakes they did and they wanna protect you! But it sux cuz they get annoying at time LOL
2007-03-11 12:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because just like me they messed up my life
2007-03-11 12:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by panda2hot06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it's normal, you'll get over it as you come to be more grateful
2007-03-11 12:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it is normal and u will eventually get over it
2007-03-11 12:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋