i've never had a bf.. i came close once, about 2 months ago.. but he started liking some other girl. i don't get it. i've never been kissed.. the farthest i've gotten is a nice hug and holding hands. By One Guy! the guy after him who just said he liked me Told me he wanted to hold my hand.. but then when we were going to go on our second date today he blew me off because he told me He likes some other girl. the very first guy i ever dated was when i was a sophomore and Nothing happened.. we were more just friends. and so i've only been on dates with 3 guys. i've never been kissed. i've never had a boyfriend. i am 17.. going on 18. i don't know what is wrong with me because i am really a Very caring girl and i think i cold be Such a good girlfriend if someone would give me the chance.. why do they always end it before it gets to that?! :( i do nothing i don't think.. at least i don't try to.... thanks to all who answer!!
2007-03-11 12:23:04 · 16 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To the 'The Flying Porcupine': ... get a life and Try to have a heart. i don't know how You have had girlfriends....
2007-03-11 12:31:35 · update #1
Nope, it's not bad at all; although I know that it is hard feeling different or left out.
Don't be desperate for boys hun, you don't need them to be happy--I promise! Just keep being yourself and being the amazing person you're growing up into. A boyfriend will happen eventually, but there's really, really no rush. It may not always feel special, but right now you're an incredibly rare breed of girl. So many get into relationships that end up doing nothig but hurt them and giving so much of themselves away that they have scarred, broken hearts by the time they're you're age. Yours has been a little bruised, but is still perfect and unbroken. And that fact that you haven't gven any kisses away in meaningless relationships is amazing. I didn't get my first kiss until I was eighteen and it was amazing dear. Lol, and I'm definitely not telling you that this is what you should do, but the most amazing couple I've ever met have just finished with college (well one has, the other is getting his masters) and were married last summer. Their first kiss on the lips was on their wedding day and the story is wonderful. It's completely like something out of a fairy tale.
You're amazing honey, and I hope you never let anyone convince you otherwise.
2007-03-11 12:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by KatieBee 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I know it seems like having a romantic relationship is the most important thing during your teenage years. Don't pressure yourself, though. Don't get into a relationship just to say you're in a relationship. Wait for the guy who is worth your time and energy. I know the waiting is difficult (and I've done my share of waiting too). However, you'll be glad you waited when you find that guy. Don't get involved in a "well, it's better than nothing" relationship because it's not fair to you or the person you are with. Do you really want your first kiss (and first other things) to be with someone you don't really care about? Waiting shows character and means that you have high standards. You're a wonderful person. Wait for the right guy.
2007-03-11 12:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. It really depends on the guy on what you guys are going to do. If he seems like he likes you and you like him, you make the first move. Its worth a try. If you don't try something while you are still young to get a feel for it. Cause once your out of school, your out on your own to find the right guy. Its all up to you though you don't even need to take my advice or not. I'm just trying to help you out. So.,.,.,make a move and you'll notice a difference in people.
2007-03-11 12:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Court 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, just relax. I think men can feel your anxiety. I had kissed guys by 17, but now I'm 31 and I'm in love for the first time in my life. So you take it easy and wait until somebody can really see you and care about you. Then you will feel wonderful. Kissing without feeling for me is nothing.. you'll see! Good luck!
2007-03-11 12:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by Brisamarina 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, why should be? You might see your friends having bf's and gf's, its them. Every person is different. The main point is, dont rush into something just because you think that you are "running out of time". Take your time and make sure you choose a right person. Trust me, it will pay out big time in the long run. .... Dont try too hard it will come naturally, you'll see!
2007-03-11 12:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by rsnMickey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not a bad thing. girls like you are very hard to find at the age your at. i means u just havent been picked yet. but one day you will meet your prince charming and then you will kiss and hug have sex and all those great things. it just not the same for all people some do it early in lif some dont sme choose to be that way some dont. it will happen when you least expect it.
2007-03-11 12:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that, I'd only had one by the time I'd turned 17. It'll grow on you as you grow older. Don't rush it, you'll only get hurt - emotionally and possibly physically.
2007-03-11 12:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by admtraz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well instead of waiting for the guys to make a move ...why dont u ? ive had that problem b4 and when i had my first bf i didnt kiss him until like 5 months of datin...i found out that he was too shy and i was shy also....so one day we went to the movies and he was looking at me with this wanting face...then i told him...why dont u just do it? and then we kissed .....it was so cute now that i think about bout it... anyways ...just go for it... dont wait for them
2007-03-11 12:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Haha, no! That was exactly me a few years ago and now I'm happily in love! Don't worry about it so much, it will come to you at the right time!
2007-03-11 12:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i was 13 when i first kissed and it was 4 a dare
stupid idea
2007-03-11 12:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋