I have a vibrator but I can never reach orgasm, what am I doing wrong? Help Please. Give specific details if you can.
2007-03-11 12:21:22 · 19 answers · asked by spicy_hott_21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some girls can get an orgasm in 10 seconds jogging in the street, while some it is a true project. try and find the G spot and play with your clitoris a lot.
2007-03-11 12:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by floridagators519 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are two types of female orgasms, clitoral and g-spot. If the vibrator isn't hitting your g-spot, you may never fully orgasm or at all. I'd suggest buying the type of vibrator that has the clitoral stimulator on it as well. My ex used 1 all the time & it was quite interesting to see her reaction to an orgasm from it. Or you can rub your clit while you use the vibrator if you're multi-talented. Lol.
2007-03-11 19:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Paul P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u don't have the right toy, & u need an experienced & largely endowed man who can make u reach it. Slumber parities .com have toys that hit clitloral & inside stimulation & u should definatly reach it . Either that or you are too frustrated & don't go long enough. You know ur body & shopuldn't have a problem knowing what gets it. Like I said try a new toy. Some vibrators are not large enough & won't do it. make sure it is big enough & can hit more than one spot. Go to a women's party & see a disply on different toys. go on slumberparties.com & book a party & see if u have a local distrubutor in your area & they can show u the toys u will need.
2007-03-11 19:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this your first question? cause man you picked a wicked one.
I've heard that some women can get one if they tighten their thighs and pelvic muscles like they are using a thigh master. you can also shallow your breathing.
these two methods constict the blood vessles and create a rush of blood to the "said" region. That is what causes an orgasm. So maybe hold your breath (not long enough to pass out though...just enough to get your heart racing) when you feel really close.
2007-03-11 19:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting a guy to do it for you but hes gotta know what hes doing there are certain spots on the pussy hes gotta hit. and the g-spot is only one spot there are more than that. cause some guys have no clue how to eat out a girl or finger her or even rub her clit. i feel sorry for them. i have never had a girl complain or tell me she didnt like it. i have giving every girl i have been with multiple orgasms in one sitting or sexual encounter w/e u wanna call it
2007-03-11 19:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need to know more to actually help you where you putting the vibrator. YOu using any lube?? how old are you?? I be happy help you. Best place is actually with your own fgingers or your partners fingers. a good masage very relaxed helps alot
2007-03-11 19:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by jtucker70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st u got to get excited,either by a sexy explicit film,etc...once u r excited you can learn how to from the actual porn movie..try imitating the girls who masturbate with a dildo.or maybe u r using the wrong type of dildo...either way,remember u must be alone and at peace and comfortable with your own body..good luck and good vibrations....lol
2007-03-11 19:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried the real thing, im sure flesh would be better than plastic! I guess a guy that your really into and who knows where your magic pearl is situated
2007-03-11 19:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by Tony Montana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried it without the vibrator?
2007-03-11 19:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by Melody F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, you might wanna try reading a book to find out. There's many positions that help you acheive... your goal.
2007-03-11 19:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋