Is it a bad sign if a boy wants to kiss you after a couple of days and after that wants to take it further after a week? I don't know if I should be glad, worried, or scared.
2007-03-11 12:18:28 · 28 answers · asked by delicious-ly evil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess the question really is should I dump him? I really like him but I don't like that he is too pushy. i know that I'm not going to go tp the next level, but should I break up woth him or give him another chance.
2007-03-11 13:34:03 · update #1
It sounds like you are very young...so it's not neccessarily a bad sign, but you should be very cautious. Young boys want only one thing and that is to have sex with you plain and simple. All of us, boys and girls want this but for different reasons in the beginning...This is something that you should be discussing with your mother, aunt or very close older responsible female friend. NOT your GF's
Just and always rem this; intercourse is "all the way" and sex is everythiing but intercourse..you should know this fact now sincethis question has come up.
And yes, you should be glad that he is telling you in this way that all you are to him is a "piece" (first the kiss and then the feel and maybe more) and worried that after he gets his piece he will want more of course, but after he gets what he wants and gets tired of it, he will most definately want to find something new and different later..how much later? nobody knows. But it will happen unless he is one in a billion and thats very unlikely...Then that should make you scared, because then you could end up with a broken heart, mixed emotions about boys and sex, a damaged self esteem at the least and a possible disease (STD) and pregnant at the worst regarless of how careful you may be.
Having sexual relations is never a good idea until you have known someone for a very long time and are sure he will be your one and only which of course is when he walks down the isle with you at the church to go on the honeymoon...most guys just want to "score" and have sex when they are young..unfortunately many girls too. Your gut instinct will always tell you what is right and wrong in these situations sweetie. Go with your gut, not your mind or heart( emotional feelings) in the end there is nothing wrong with a kiss..if you have cable YV watch the show Seventh Heaven ..good luck with your decision...if you take this info to heart you will be on your way to a great life journey..there is much more than boys out there..but yes, they are fun sometimes..
2007-03-11 12:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Gary G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well depends on what you are comfortable with. Are you ready to take your relationship to that level yet? (I'm going to assume that by saying one step further you mean 2nd base). Just because he wants to take it there doesn't mean you want to too. There's nothing to be worried about if one person wants more out of the relationship than the other...it happens quite often...just do what you are comfortable with, if you don't wanna go that far yet, then tell him and he should understand, if your ready, then go for it ! Good luck =]
2007-03-11 12:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by May 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you both 16 or over because if he is an adult and you are 15 then it's illegal to have sex with a minor. But if you are both old enough it's ok to kiss him but only take things further if you feel ready. Don't be pressured by him or anyone else to do something you don't feel ready for.
2007-03-11 12:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's flattering yes but are you ready????? Always ask yourself if you willing to give up something like sex to anyone (not saying your a virgin or not) just meaning it's something you share with someone you trust, like, and possibly love too. Don't get me wrong sex is one of the best things in a relationship, but your not in one so beware and smart. Remember to always listen to the voice in your head before deciding, but have fun too. Kissing isn't bad so french like theres no other.
2007-03-11 12:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by wldsxychild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 13:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that means he out to get what he wants & really isn't thinking about yopu & to me that's too pushy major red flag
2007-03-11 12:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really have to go with what you feel, make sure the steps you take together are mutual... do you even really know this boy? Do you trust him?
2007-03-11 12:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never really know just let things flow and see what happens Jesus is holding your future but he is still looking out for you remember that
2007-03-11 12:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by GlitznGlamGirlyGirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah id be worried about the 2nd bit
if u dont want 2, tell him
if he pushes you, and won't respect your feelings, he justs wants you for that, not for you. if thats true, dump him
id talk to him, becuase a week???? thats nothing!
2007-03-11 12:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by sirprizeme139 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are like this.I never plan anything.I go by feeling (not to say i don't bring protection).Nowadays there's alot of things you can catch.If you are asking this ? you are not ready to do anything with him,so,just wait.
2007-03-11 12:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋