how do you become really attractive for a boy?

Question

Clothes, Personality - Sometimes I feel like an outcast and some people talk to me, some reject me
what else?

Answer 1

Above all, BE YOURSELF - sounds corny but it's true.

However, some starting points - be friendly and open, smile, and in terms of clothes my advice is don't wear anything way too revealing or slutty or anything really masculine...

Really I can't tell you what to do cos you're unique and they way to be attractive is, like I said, be yourself :) That's the one thing you absolutely have to do.

Answer 2

I obviously wouldn't know, but from my experience (in which I greatly lack actual 'bf's'), I figure it would be-
(This is what guys I've known usually LIKE , but unless you are REALLY desperate, look for a guy who likes YOU! Be yourself. Often times, you'll think yourself is 'unattractive', but usually it's because it is still not you're real self! Wait for one who likes you, and that you like. Because if it is one-sided, that be sorta sad, eh? ='( Stalker tendencies may arise from that kinda' 'love')

Physically-
*Tall, not taller than the boy. Some guys like girls short, but fashionably.
*Curvy, not stick thin. Not obese. Check by wearing a shirt and skirt, and seeing if you can actually make out a circle and a bellybutton in the mirror. Not a fool proof method. See &&
* Most guys like middle length hair, and this is probably best. Easy to style, doesn't take too long.
*Clean legs. Guys like to see leg, especially the tennisy type...
*Mustache= No, no. Don't worry about it, unless you inherited a little hairy genes.
*Arched eyebrows. NO UNI-BROWS!!! Unless you're, like, a total feminist. In which case, ignore most of the above.
*No veins. Usually, this freaks them out....
*Clear complexion. Not light, or dark. Just wash your face daily, and moisturize.
*Expressive eyes, than are intriguing at first. The mystery pulls him in, the expression keeps him.
*Guys like your nose. Big noses will end up feeling left out , as well as small ones, but all in all, guys don't think it matter, unless you have a /really/ wimpy nose.
*Moisturized lips. Just keep chap stick, and don't over do the lipstick. In doubt, use petroleum jelly.
*Cheek bones, nice jaws, all that blah is usually (emphasis on USUALLY) the rage

Mentally And Emotionally-
*Confidence. This is where && is. If the girl is confident, but not snotty, it usually is good. Unless they're the S&M type....
*Humor. Not the giggly cheerleader type. The kind that makes you laugh, and want to meet the person whenever you're sad.
*Balance. Don't be obsessive, don't be apathetic.
*Understanding. Not 'Honey, tell me what's wrong...NOW!'. More like knowing when to give space, when not to be clingy, when to make a person feel needed (be clingy), etc.
*Smart. Unless you're guy is a total jerk, you need to be smart. Usually street smarts, and emotional. No one wants someone who acts like a know-it-all. =)
*Fun, spontaneous, etc, but not to the point where he feels he's just an accomplice dragged on for a ride.
*Normal. Guys actually do like a mixture of devilish angelic types. Be yourself. If a guy thinks you're trying too hard, he'll either take advantage of you, or break it off quick.

Hope this helps. I bet you have a better love life than me, anyway.
^^'

Answer 3

This is what I've learned in my short time on earth: don't change yourself for anyone. Just be yourself and things will fall into place eventually. Trust me, if you change who you are just to attract a member of the opposite sex, you WILL lose yourself.

If you are happy with who you are, that confidence will become attractive to others. Have faith in yourself and the right one will come along when you least expect it. :)

Answer 4

tight clothes, prepish wear little makeup. and have a fun bounce persomnality but not ditzy

Answer 5

Don't change who you are to please a man. Just be yourself, someone will see you for who you are and think you're the best thing alive.

Answer 6

i think just be yourself, people like to see the real guy, otherwise your just trying to be fake