i know you guys will probably just say "there is Nothing wrong with you"... but i really am to the point where i don't believe that.. because Something MUST be wrong with me since all my good things in my life have to come to an end So Fast. i just got completely crushed by two guys (best friends actually) in like the past 2-3 months. after the one dumped me the other became my really good friend and picked up the pieces.. and feelings just happened. but then today he just ended it with me. he had said He Really Liked Me and all this stuff.. that there was no where he'd rather be when he was with me.. all sorts of that apparent Crap.. because now he's just like i don't know what happened but i don't like you like that .. i like someone else. and the First guy just all of a sudden started liking someone else. so apparently every time guys date me they Start Looking for 'Someone Else' what the heck is wrong with me.. i am such a caring person and i would make a good gf if i had a chance.
2007-03-11 11:57:41 · 19 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not THAT young.. 17. these guys were both 18. and the first guy had his last gf for like 9 months.. so i don't know about the whole non-committer thing..
2007-03-11 12:06:58 · update #1
and no Sheepdog.. i didn't have sex with either of them. didn't even get to kissing.. sheesh.
2007-03-13 12:16:35 · update #2
you're right, I am gunna say, "there's nothing wrong with you." but hear me out:
everyone goes through their rough times, but you just got a little bad luck and got hit REALLY bad. don't sweat it. things will get better. life's not gunna treat you this way forever.
there's nothing wrong with you, hun. stay optimistic! :)
2007-03-11 12:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you? You are obviously very young, and young people do this kind of stuff all the time. These two boys are probably new to dating and they don't know what they want. There is nothing at all wrong with you. Give it some time and when you are a little older, date more mature guys. One day you will be able to laugh at this!
2007-03-11 19:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what's wrong with you?
You're taking this too seriously. Stuff happens, girlie.
We girls get our hearts broken all the time. You're just going through a rough time, and, as I can tell from your grammar and usage of the English language, very young. This isn't the worst of your life.
Maybe you're just not ready for a real relationship. Maybe, you should take a break from dating and concentrate on friends and having fun. You don't need all the drama involved with dating.
Take my word for it <3
2007-03-11 19:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by TobitOfWisdom 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you is that you're too easy. Assuming that you're having sex with them, of course.
So if you've had sex with two guys in "like the past 2-3 months", and you don't think there's anything wrong with that, then that's 8-12 guys you could be doing in a year...16 to 24 in two years...24 to 36 in three years...and how long do expect it will take you to find "the one"?
Your heart won't be broken so easily if you actually get to know a guy before deciding he's worthy to sleep with.
2007-03-11 19:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. You will go through many years of dating and relationships before you find that someone who is for you. Sometimes it hits, sometimes it doesn't, but you blame these things on yourself you become self conscious and it will be harder to be happy and therefor harder to find that special guy to spend your time with. It's a long process, but one that shapes you and gives you strength with every hurt. Hang in there!
2007-03-11 19:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be you are expecting too much from these guys --- ie to be caring and respectful --- yes i am being serious --- try changing who you are looking for --- open your mind to possibilities --- i was looking for a set of criteria in a lady then i met someone that threw them all away --- and i truly can never love anyone as i love her --- and im WAY old (at least to most of the people here) --- so maybe stop looking so hard and let someone find you and sweep you off your feet --- best wishes
2007-03-11 19:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not you. Younger/immature guys tend to go from one girl to the next. They are rarely interested in getting involved in a relationship. Watch and see how long they stay with the new girlfriends.
2007-03-11 19:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by BR 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, perhaps there is somethng wrong with you, perhaps you live in a town where the girls are sluttier then you and you are just not that way
perhaps you live in a place where guys are just boneheads and you haven't taken the time to find a decent guy in all of that
perhaps you are not treating them right, who knows
2007-03-11 19:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to high school. Two guys breaking up with you doesn't make a pattern. Now, if you have 10 guys in a row break up with you, then it might be you. Boys don't know what they want and always want to switch around. It's probably them, not you.
2007-03-11 19:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by Moral Orel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This has nothing to do with weight or cutting your hair. Don't try to change yourself because there is someone out there that likes you for you. Don't change yourself to make someone want you because then they expect that out of you. You are a woman and you deserve respect and someone that is going to love you for who you are.
2007-03-11 19:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by hotstuff_420_99 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋