We don't see often b/c we live 150 miles apart but we do talk on the phone.The first of this month, we talked on the phone and said he would call in a week (which was last thurs 8th). days have passed and no call from him. I AM WORRIED ABOUT HIM b/c he usually calls when he says he would. But I also think that he might not be interested in seeing me anymore and that is why I double think before calling, which I have not. Do I wait more days? Would the text message " Hey, (name). Is everthing ok?' be ok?
P.S. It would be simple to answer my own question if I wasn't the one asking. But It's me.
Thank you.
2007-03-11 11:46:05 · 12 answers · asked by BeckhamGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a guy(an old guy) and I would text him if I were you.
Just checking to see if everything is ok.
2007-03-11 11:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I like the text message approach here as it will show him that you are thinking about him AND that you care for him. That is what friends do for each other...and hey maybe if he wants more then it will work out in the end! The distance apart might be making him back off a little, but the more you two talk and connect with each other the stronger you two will be. I know a Long distance relationship is not the easiest, but be patient, be caring(like you are)...patience is the key in these relationships but they can be very rewarding.
2007-03-11 11:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by DN1503 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a courtesy call would let him know you care, but he may take it as you being too attached. I don't know you're situation with (name) so I can't really give you an accurate answer besides long distance relationships hardly ever work. 150 miles isn't a walk in the park. I'd wait 1 more day then call. Then, if you're unsure of his feelings for you, work it into the conversation you have with him. Don't call him to just talk about his feelings about you because that could be misconstrued as selfishness.
2007-03-11 11:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Paul P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard because guys have a hard time getting the sex they want from 150 miles away and girls have a problem getting the communication they want from 150 miles away.
Either was it might be better to suspend the relationship if you are going to be a long distance apart for a long time. Especially if its not that committed yet.
2007-03-11 11:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Vultureman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is juggling you with someone else and he is afraid of commiting to either you or the girl that is nearest to him. Absence does not make the heart grow fonder.
You are who you are and a pretty good person at that, aren't you. If so forget this clown and get on with your life. You are who you are and you need not become anyone's slave. You are a freestanding female who is confident in herself and you merely need to refuse to submit willingly to any hunk (your thoughts) that comes along. If the so-called hunk cannot respect you with a phone call you don't need to have a relationship with him.
Give this guy the brush and get on with your life. There will be others and they will approach you. That is how it has been and that is how it will ever be. Just get on with it and forget this guy. By the way, stay out of long distance relationships.
This is how my 250 mile away lovely dumped me and I have been forever grateful to her.
2007-03-11 12:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by doubtindave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that text will work. I mean, honestly, you could even call him. So he said he would call, just call and be like I thought you were going to call and I just wanted to make sure everything is ok!! Or you don't even have to ask if everythings ok.
I would call. If he's not interested anymore than he should tell you. If he doesnt and is talking funny or not being himself then ask whats up.
2007-03-11 11:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by lets_get_some_shoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys often forget to call, and girls calling them after the said time, normally is a relief, cuz we forget. I do that alot actually, and most of the time it's cuz I'm busy, but I appreciate when a girl decides to touch base and lemme know.
2007-03-11 11:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there may be no harm in it. if youre biting your nails questioning what the story is or whats goin on are ye nevertheless meetin etc then theres no harm in putting your recommendations relaxed. i wouldnt recommendations it. its generally left to the guy and now and back it enables for a girl to be beneficial approximately those issues.
2016-10-18 03:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might wanna call just to check up on him, that's probably a good idea.
2007-03-11 11:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the text message would be fine
ps im a guy
2007-03-11 11:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by APPLEUSER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋