I started getting boobs at the age of 10. Ok,my sis and I were running and she gave me a bra she used 2 wear when she was 12 or 11.It fit fine,and she told me I could have the laced white one.I have her purple one,but I only wear it when my mom's not home.All my friends said I needed one,at least training kind since the 4th grade.My mom told me not to discuss it till I'm 11 or 12.I don't know.Mom's know best,but is she just a little wrong?
2007-03-11 11:43:32 · 9 answers · asked by jasmine m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
My mom did this to me, I had a very well developed chest by the time I was in the fifth grade.It`s hard to be teased and if you know you need a bra, PUSH the issue with your mom. Now, if you just have budding and a little chest development, I would just wear a tank top, or an undershirt. But that`s awfully nice of your sister to take care of you and to notice your discomfort. Maybe you can get your sister to try and help you convince your mom? My mom did this to me because she was uncomfortable with the fact that I was growing up so quickly.I just had my aunt take me out shopping for my birthday and I bought a couple of bras with the money she gave me, I know it`s a confusing time for you, it`s hard to have a stubborn parent....
2007-03-12 03:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by lost2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well. Mother's do know A LOT about the female body. But, there isnt a certain age for you to grow boobs. I have been wearing a bra since I was in the 3rd grade. Like at first, those small training bras that are like a tank top. Now, I am in more structured bras and I'm 17. If you have enough boobs, that people are noticing you need a bra, then you more than likely do. Just sit down with your mom and talk to her. I wish you the best!
2007-03-12 02:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley_Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Needing a bra isn't about your age. It's about your development. It's probably hard for your mom to think about her little girl growing up, but if you need to wear a bra, it's just a fact. Lots of girls your age wear bras. Try talking to your mom again. Tell her it's getting uncomfortable running around at recess and during p.e. Let her know that you're not just trying to act grown-up, but you really need one. Good luck!
2007-03-12 04:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tiss 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I remember when i got my firt bra in 3rd grade i didnt need it at all i was just 2 excited so i got it, with my friend and her mom took us because i was 2 embarassed to ask my mom. bu then i felt so mature and wanted a padded one and her mom took us again but this time i got more without my mom knowing and hid them in my purse and backpack, and i went agin to get BIZG paddded ones in 4th grade they didnt fit me at all and my mom found out i didnt know what to do she was so angry becuz i had spent about 50 dollars on bras that i didnt even need. and mym mom toook me back to the store to return some of them she was so mad. them my friend gave me about 20 big bras and my mom found those she was madder then ever!!!and i was only in 4th grade so flat chested and i wanted 2 grow up and have boobs but i didnt, i wonderned when i would start puberty and get my period!! so my mom asked me in 5th grade if she wanted to take my bra shopping to get some bras that actually FIT! and i was to embarased so i said no. then l8tr on i told her while we were in target i made up some excuse and she said ok go find some and meet me up at the cashregister in 5 minutes i said ok. i did not need a bra thogh and i got 2 or 3 then a few months l8tr she toook me several more times and know i have boobs im a 34B and i got my period during 6th grade right before my play started. and i am a teen. thats my very long story on getting my bra know my advice to u is 2 talk to ur mom even thought she said not til u r older WHY NOT u need a bra so ask her to take u to target, and pick out some padded bras. why dont u wear the purple bra when she is home ust wondering??? email me back i am curious
much love
ashley
2007-03-12 10:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mums being biaatchy, your getting boobs and need a bra, my daughter is 10 and im always checking her chest, im dying to take her bra shopping, its so exciting, i remember having my 1st bra, i was 12, i felt so grown up, u sound very mature, have a talk with mum when shes in a good mood, wear your sisters till she gets your own, good luck cool girl
2007-03-12 00:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by ROCKMUM LOVES BOWIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In this situation, mom doesn't know best. Talk to her, say that you are different then your sister and you would like one. Tell her what kids have said too, that might help. She just doesn't want her little girl growing up.
Good for you to take it in your own hands and go to your sister too! That is grown up, and mature.
2007-03-12 01:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by Popsicle_1989 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Show her you need it, sound likes she is in denial, and doesn't want her baby to grow up.
2007-03-15 11:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by princess froggie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if ur developing and ppl can tell u need one u obviously need one....... tell ur mom u need one... even ur friends r telling u...... maybe try running so she can see u..... i'm sure she'll be able to tell then......
2007-03-12 13:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her anyways....i know it might be hard.....or just wear the one your sister gave you and don't be ashamed...
2007-03-12 00:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by buschchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋