My ex- boyfriend and father of my child is gone and has been for 7months- deported . I'm now a single parent.I get no support from the father. I dated another guy for 4 months but thought only of my child's father the whole time and then that guy cheated on me. I still have trouble sleeping- insomnia , and anger issues. How do I get past this and get my life on track?
2007-03-11 11:40:06 · 9 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Patience.
Sad to say, big life changes like you describe take about two years to adjust and become OK again.
2007-03-11 11:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl first get help dont think this si your ex fault you played a part in this tooo
your child deserves a good mother so et help with anger management
the father should be paying child support anyway!!!!!so if u have the money sue him
but first find ask him to pay
see ya on judge judie
2007-03-11 18:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by monnie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will heal your broken heart, just keep your heart open for your child. Just don't give your heart up so easily to the next man in your life. Although I don't have a child, but this advice is from experience...GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-11 18:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by HAGAR!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DATE NOW! You need time to heal, and besides your child needs you right now so don't go spending your time out on dates. You need to be strong for your child so that one day your child will grow up and be strong just like mommy is.
2007-03-11 18:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by That Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need therapy and a way to vent it out....
Try support groups.
But as for moving on in the meantime, you need to focus on your baby, stop dating other guys until you're secure in yourself and your child doesn't need you 24/7, and relax. Maybe go out one night without your kid (leave him/her with a trusted neighbour), and just relax with your girlfriends.
2007-03-11 18:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Fabulously Broke in the City 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the one that can help is God but i can give you an idea you can try to forget. sure you are thinking/saying "but that is hard" yes it is hard but you can try it id better than not trying.
take care
2007-03-11 18:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wondering the same thing. Thinking of you and hope you get an answer!
2007-03-11 18:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just focus your attention to the baby for now....till the right one for you comes.
2007-03-11 18:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS HARD BUT YOU WILL.JUST WAIT TO DATE TILL YOU ARE OVER HIM
2007-03-11 18:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by kissie623 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋