There's a girl I really like......we're good friends and she had a boyfriend for more than a year and now that they broke up (like a month ago) I started having some feelings for her. Well anyway, I'm kinda afraid to ask her out cause I don't wanna ruin our friendship......she flirts with me a lot but since we've been friends for so long and now she's available then it makes it kinda weird to go in a different direction...well I'm hoping you're getitng what I'm saying.
Anyway, if I don't do nothing for now, could it do any bad?
2007-03-11 11:35:46 · 25 answers · asked by Pro90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is your opportunity to tell her how you feel.. she is single and if she flirts with you then she probably has more interest in you than just friendship. It couldnt hurt.. just be honest with her. Good luck! ;)
2007-03-11 11:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by callmecouture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is no harm in asking.. i mean we only live once. i have been in your situation before and it has worked out for me, and if it doesnt work out at least you can still be freinds! As long as you know that she definately likes you, then go for it! At least you know her as a freind first so you both feel comfortable with each other anyway! Also, make sure that she still doesnt have feelings from her last realtionship because strong feelings can grow for someone over a year and she might still be confused! So just find out a few things and then i say GO FOR IT!!!! :P goodluck!
2007-03-11 18:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Cheerios17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont do anything then someone else will take her for himself and you already ruined your friendship by wanting more. now you cant do any of those cute things that friends do because you like her so go for it. if she is flirting with you then that means she likes you so really you have nothing to lose but a friendship that is already screwed. i hope you know what i am saying.
2007-03-11 18:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would always recommend going for it, because you really don't know how perfect things could be.
just last year my best friend since i was 6 and i started going out, and we lasted a long time. we broke up but now we're still great friends, so i'm sure your friendship will persevere.
good luck !
2007-03-11 18:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by you - with the face :D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should. But tell her there's no pressure in starting anything right away as she just broke up with her boyfriend and could jump into another relationship with u out of rebound. Tell her how u feel, and let her know that u will always be there for her if she needs u.Good luck
2007-03-11 18:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it have to go in a different direction. Starting at as friends is the best basis for a relationship. Included her in more activities and slowly make them more intimate. You will never go wrong having your significant other as your best friend.
2007-03-11 18:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by bramsey2610 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel... don't let this pass u. i have been in this situation and i didn't ask the boy i liked now hes already got another girlfriend and hes in love. so tell her u would like to try and be a couple. tell her that u still don't want to mess up yalls friendsship. that way if things don't work out yall can still be friends
2007-03-11 18:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by LUMBEE GURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation. Life is full of risks. Could you handle it if she rejects you? Is your friendship strong enough to survive an ending relationship? Or, does her friendship mean way to much to even think of risking what you have? IS she worth the risk.
2007-03-11 18:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by katmusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u 2 really like each other waiting shouldn't hurt but dont wait to long because things might change.
2007-03-11 18:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by tishapixi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out! enough said. Just go for it, if it backfires, I'm sure you'll bother get over it within a week. if it doesn't backfire, Congrads!!!
Love is all about jumping off a cliff, you worry then just go for it
It's a scare at times but while you're flying down you'll figure out why you jumped!
2007-03-11 18:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by jEN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋