2007-03-11 11:34:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a friend that sits next to her in some class. during free time when they're both there...casually walk up to your friend and start talking you know like...you usually would. then just kinda casually include her in the conversation and start laughing with her and talking to her and making fun of her ((in a flirty way))
ummmm ya that should do it. <3
2007-03-11 11:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Beckyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same thing with this guy. I really do like him, but I can't really speak up and say anything and I am waaaaaaaaaay too nervous. I wave to him in the halls and I used 2 have PE with him. but I am in health now, I know what your going through. I just hope you say somthing before someone else does. Try to become her friend. Hang-out with her more. Just be nice and if she waves at you, wave back and smile.
Be nice and start asking her how her day is when you see her in the halls. Be nice and take a deep breath. Don't just ask her out right off the bat, its better to get to know the person first. Well, I certainly hope everything goes well. ^_^
2007-03-11 18:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by ♥•♥Melody♥•♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it like this: girls are just as nervous as guys. And girls are like dogs in that, they can smell fear. A large percentage of the first impression is confidence. If you believe you are worthwhile, you will be seen as worthwhile. Besides, if she doesn't want to talk to you, what do you care? And there's only one way to find out. So, come on... get out there and talk to the girl. Be confident, but not cocky. Just talk. Forget that she's attractive and talk to her as if she simply intrigues you.
2007-03-11 18:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Godfather76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out her screen name...it works even better if you have a reason to be talking to her (friends in common, homework) that way you still talk but its less threatening...but its also a lot less personal so be careful
2007-03-11 18:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you ever thought she was too nervous to talk to you too? but just practice it in the mirror and then tell her one day that you like her and thats that
2007-03-11 18:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by monika g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get to know her friends. Maybe you could eventually all go out as a group.
2007-03-11 18:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by BR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about a common interest you share with her - checkers, riding bikes, anything.
Let her talk about herself for the first ten minutes! just listen.
You already like her, and she'll like that you listened to her.
2007-03-11 18:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by "Ski" 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ask her for her email address or her messenger screen name. It is a lot easier to talk ot someone when you are not looking at them.
2007-03-11 18:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by turtlegrl333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When there's people she's around that you know start talking to them then causally start talking to her or just suck it up and ask for her phone number
2007-03-11 18:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by $**Cutie pie**$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup get to know her as friends first. You may not even like her after that.
2007-03-11 18:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by sickblade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋