i just got played by two guys in like the past 2-3 months. i almost avoided the second one.. but then it just happened, and now he ended it today. why do guys feel they have to play girls... How Can you do that to a person and then not even feel bad about it..?!! the second guy was actually the first guy's best friend and he Knew how much his friend hurt me and was There to pick up the pieces.. then it just barely evolved into something more. and they were both cowards and they both gave the same lame-a$$ excuses.. (and the second one even admitted his friends excuse was lame, but then he basically used it too) they both "found someone else" i don't get it though.. they liked me SO much like that Day Before.. then they just up and decide they like the other one more. why do i suck so much.. what is wrong with me? why can't i find a Good Guy who loves me for me!? :( i am such a caring person.. which is why i have gotten hurt SO bad.
2007-03-11 11:33:10 · 4 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not you, theres alot of guys out there that can be assholes, but dont give up to soon, u sound very sweet and caring, the right one will come to you dont worry, just leave it in gods hands and he will send the right guy your way. Good Luck!
2007-03-11 11:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys do that because girls accept it. you're always going for alpha male guys and guys with cute boy looks. you don't actually look for decent guys. you're too afraid they might not have 'confidence'. that's why you always end up choosing guys who don't really need you and don't care about you. you're wired through evolution to be like this. there are plenty of decent guys out there, you girls are just too busy going for those jerks. however, i'm starting to lose fath in the fact that there are good girls out there... especially at my age(i'm 18).
2007-03-11 18:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of guys out there like that and u do seem caring and loving but dont give up it just takes time to find that one special person trust me ;)
2007-03-11 18:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by mike s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with you! people these days are just not respectful of other people! don't take it out on yourself! They are !&)#*!! :)
2007-03-11 18:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by thestashman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋