He wants me to come over to his house all the time and when I get there he is so sweet and just wants to hold me and everything like that. He has cheated on me before tho so i'm reluctant to get close to him. But when we aren't together it's like he doesn't even want to talk to me! What is going on in his mind, and does he really want to be with me and only me this time??
P.S. He wants me to come over there like almost everyday, so he doesn't really have time to see another girl!?!?!?
Help?!?!?!?!
2007-03-11 11:29:25 · 11 answers · asked by Ambyre 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hard to say. Some guys are like this. They aren't phone talkers, but want to be with you in person. Without knowing more it sounds like he really likes you.
2007-03-11 11:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by sickblade 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be VERY careful... if he has cheated on you before and now wants you to come over to his house all the time, there's a very real possibility that he is simply trying to get you to sleep with him. Why the sweetness? So you don't realize what's really going on.
What it all boils down to (even if he's not simply driven by sex) is this: If he doesn't treat you right ALL the time, he's not treating you right. Move on.
2007-03-11 18:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by Godfather76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost everyday? Or everyday? It seems to me like he's trying to make you feel like he's not going to make a repeat in history so he doesn't have to hear you yell, talk, or (no offense intended) cry about it. If he wants you to come over everyday & when you're not together, ignores you, then he's not in love with you or who you are. He may just be interested in what you have. I know it hurts hearing this but, I'm not going to lie. He doesn't seem worth it.
2007-03-11 18:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Paul P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well also he wants you to go over there that way people won't see you with him. And I know your not with him all day and all night. But all he wants is for you to give him some and he will sweet talk you and you'll open your legs for him and then he won't talk with you and get mad with him and so on. But you need to understand why doesn't he want you to be seen with him. Ask him and he will give you a lame excuse. He is probably seeing someone else when your not around and doesn't want to loose her. SO kick him to the curb and move on.
2007-03-11 18:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you will know if that is the case.
If he cheated on you before, and you obviously forgave him, that doesn't mean you have to trust him until he proves/gives you a reason to trust him.
Be vary wary of him, if he acts like he doesn't know you are around when you aren't together, this is a HUGE red flag for me.
Be very careful on how you proceed with this guy.
2007-03-11 18:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some boys just aren't phone talkers, there more the person who will talk to you in person, I would say he likes you, but doesn't wanna talk to you in person
2007-03-11 18:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by mebh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hay girl once a cheater always a cheater
2007-03-11 18:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by Howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the gentleman is insecure first off.
and if he cheated once...well u know.
sounds like he wants alittle more from you.
if you want him take him...if you don't trust him..leave him.
2007-03-11 18:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by transvainia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a....Are you intamite all the time when you're there?
2007-03-11 18:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by thestashman 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leopards dont change there spots hun--dump him time---lots of fish in the oceon
2007-03-11 18:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by imneiflim 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋